When should a woman give herself up? The longer she holds back, the more men love her.

Many women foolishly believe that men will love them more after having deeper physical contact with them. In fact, this is wrong. Women should learn to be reserved and refuse physical invasion, because the longer they hold back, the more men will love them. Let's take a look.

People are becoming more open about sex. Although many men still have a virgin complex, people now treat virgins as if they were monsters. When a woman in her twenties is found to be still a virgin, many people will look at her strangely, thinking that there is something wrong with her and that no man would want her.

The love model outlined in the romance novels of the Qiong Yao era is already outdated. Many young boys and girls believe that even if they have not experienced sex, it will happen in the near future; as for the object, it has to be the person they like. As for how long after a relationship it is appropriate to go to bed, that depends on fate. It is not good to go too fast, but you definitely won't wait until the holy bell of marriage rings.

Physical contact is a very pleasant experience in relationships between men and women, whether it is kissing, holding hands or connecting arms. But there are always some impatient boys who try every possible means to experience this happiness as soon as possible. Unfortunately, girls are often too shy to make an effective refusal in this situation, and let the boys succeed.

1. Sex: Men need to wait longer

The sexual activities of humans in civilized society are fundamentally different from the mating of ordinary animals. They cannot simply arise at the mercy of nature and emotions, but are largely subject to the constraints of ethical morals. Specifically, human sexual behavior needs to be constrained by social ethical norms in terms of the object, time, and environment in which it occurs. Modern people enter puberty at around the age of 12, and the marriage age must be after 22 years old (in fact, most young people now often get married after the age of 26). In other words, it takes more than ten years of waiting from sexual maturity to obtaining a legal sexual intercourse "license".

Unable to suppress their inner physical impulses, men often physically assault women and demand intimate actions when they are in love. At this time, don't agree to his request easily, because at that time, you are just a partner who satisfies his physical needs, nothing more.

2. The sooner you go to bed, the sooner you break up.

As the saying goes, if something is not precious, you will not cherish it. But this is true. When in love, many men are attracted by women's beauty or figure, and they look forward to getting a woman's body one day. But will he cherish something that is too easy to obtain?

The faster you go to bed, the more a man will feel that you are not reserved enough, and he will wonder if you are as easy to give yourself to other men. therefore. Too quick, low in love. Because the focus is not on love, because trust is reduced too quickly, because it is too easy to become unappreciative, and because the lack of emotional foundation is bound to lead to changes.

To maintain lasting charm, you need to dress yourself up beautifully, but don't agree to a man's request easily. If you are so reserved and noble that you keep him in suspense all day long, will he still have the energy to sneak a peek at other beauties? I have seen many couples who are in love before going to bed, but once they go to bed, the men become indifferent and ignore women. The bottom line is that you are no longer so precious in the eyes of men. The more he can't get, the more he will spend time chasing you. The easier it is to get, the easier it is for him to give up!

3. Women are not necessarily more conservative than men

Men and women are equal now. Even though men are usually carefree, when it comes time for him to muster up the courage, he will often back off. For example, when asked to take the initiative to go to bed, many men are worried that this will make the woman think that he is in love with her just for her body, so they will back off. In fact, nowadays, women are not necessarily more conservative than men when it comes to sex.

Don't think that only men have desires, women have desires too. When desire strikes, women might as well take the initiative. Many men prefer women to take the initiative, which will make sex more exciting. Although the old concept that "men take advantage and women suffer" is still valid, it is no longer universally true. Many women no longer need the balance of marriage or money and are willing to let go and enjoy the pleasure of "I like him, I want him".

In a woman's world, love and sex are inseparable. "Like" is still put first. Some women are also willing to simplify sex. If they like it, they like it. If they have sex, they have sex. They have sex because they like it. If they don’t like it, they won’t have sex anymore. Unlike before, marriage, morality, chastity, other people's opinions... considering so many things makes life too tiring.

Women have the right to pursue their own sexual happiness, but when your desire is not coming, you must never refuse the physical invasion of men. The longer you hold back, the more men love you!