A woman who is unfaithful must know this in her life

Being unfaithful is not exclusive to men. In reality, many women are also unfaithful. But for the unfaithful women, you must know this.

1. Don’t try to get the love you want from the Internet

Most outstanding men have their own careers or busy jobs. If you can’t even handle serious work, how do you have time to chat online all day long? Even if I am not too busy at work, I will spend my spare time with my loved one. Single, outstanding men are surrounded by the pursuit and companionship of outstanding women, so he doesn't need to wait for your arrival online. Is there a moment of mental confusion or infatuation? Maybe it is not true love at all, but just a short-term comfort needed in loneliness and solitude.

There is indeed true love on the Internet. You may also meet the outstanding man who is destined to be with you at a certain time, and it is even more likely that the two of you truly love each other. But when it comes to reality, there are too many practical limitations. After such a hard journey, does the original mystery, excitement and happiness still exist? Since it is so hard and painful, why go so far away? Is it true that there are no outstanding men around me?

2. Don’t expect to get the true happiness you want from a married man

A married man who is irresponsible to his family will also be irresponsible to you. He just treats you as a seasoning both physically and mentally. You will never get true happiness from a man like this. He may say the most beautiful words in the world to you, give you roses and perfume, or even give you a house and a car. But if you naively think that you are different from others and still hope that he will give you a home, then it will always be just your beautiful wishful thinking. He would never shake the foundation of his family and career for a mere little woman. The person he loves most is always himself, followed by his children and their mother. If you don't understand this and really push them too far, you will find that you can't even see their shadows in the end.

Married men who are responsible for their families may fall in love with you at a certain time and under certain circumstances because of temporary emotional confusion, but their strong sense of responsibility for their families will always make them hesitate and hesitate. He loves you, but he loves his family and his children more. He can't leave you, and he wants to be with you, the one he truly loves, but in the end he can't escape his responsibilities and obligations. In the long run, amidst increasing hesitation and bewilderment, you will find that what you fell in love with at first was his sense of responsibility, but in the end, it was also his sense of responsibility that hurt you the most. Amid increasing disappointment and heartache, the passion and true love of two people will eventually be exhausted, leaving only scars all over the body and fatigue in the heart, and they may even begin to doubt and become discouraged about their entire life. And the once peaceful family will never return to the past. Or, after a long journey and untold hardships, they finally get together, but his guilt towards his original family will always hang like a shadow over his new life.

3. Don’t talk about divorce easily

Divorce is easy, and it is also easy to live independently as an independent woman in the new century. But the damage to the child is permanent and even irreparable. No matter how incompetent a father is, his position in his child's heart can never be replaced by anyone else. Men nowadays are smart enough. They may spend their time drinking and carousing and have many girls outside, but basically they are not stupid enough to actually destroy their family. He can be very cool and romantic outside, and he will still behave like a good man when he comes back to you.

If you don't want to embarrass yourself, then just pretend that you know nothing. At least you can still have superficial happiness. Following, checking phones, even looking through men's pockets, calling or making appointments with other women are the lowest practices of the lowest women. If you insist on being serious and stubborn, they will be really shameless if they break up with you, and the man you find again may be even worse. Generally speaking, middle-aged men who have some status and some money are popular with young girls. The good men who truly appreciate your talent and kindness as an older woman are basically already someone else's husband, and you, a poor woman, may not necessarily meet a good man whose wife has died, and even if you meet one, you may not be lucky enough to have him.

4. Be a smart woman who treats herself well

If you really don't care that a jerk man is just treating you as his condiment, then you can also treat him as your condiment. If you really don't care that a good man cannot give you the result you want in the end, then you should cherish the rare true love and good times in front of you, and convince yourself: loving each other does not necessarily mean being together, as long as you truly loved each other, it is enough. Before you unbutton your clothes or open your heart, you must think clearly about all the consequences you may face and be prepared to bear all the silent endings alone. Don't expect to ask a man for an explanation at the end of the day. Learn to give yourself an explanation and account.

Always remember one thing: never ask for any promises from a man. The so-called promise is just an absolutely sincere lie said at a specific time. When you are in love, there are too many crazy words and too many stupid words. If you want, you can certainly believe that everything is true; but if you are smart enough, it is better to believe nothing, just like there are some people you never have to wait for. You may not be smart enough, but you must not be so stupid as to not take good care of yourself. In this world, besides your parents, you are the person who truly loves you the most, and you are the only person who truly treats you best. If you can't love yourself and treat yourself well, what reason do you have to expect others to love you well? So, be a woman who has self-respect, self-esteem, independence, and self-love, but not selfish!