Is there such a thing as excessive sexual intercourse between couples?

The biggest sexual difference between men and women comes from concepts. If there is no problem with concept, there will be no problem with behavior. Generally speaking, women have more conservative ideas, but that's not always the case. Men may want to innovate in their sexual patterns and discover some new feelings.

1. Who is more infatuated?

What the ancients said about "a lovelorn woman and an unfaithful man" may not be entirely true. Because women are like this, when she feels that there is no future in being with a man, she will completely forget about him and devote herself to the next relationship. But it is not like this for men. If he once loved a woman very much, even if he has a new girlfriend now, he still hopes to stay friends with his ex-girlfriend. He believes that since they have had a good time together, they should not break up with each other because of a breakup.

A man's psychology is always like that of a child. No matter how mature he is, he will always have a childish side and cannot give up some of his original emotions. Most men still have an Oedipus complex and hope to keep their original feelings in their hearts. How to keep it in your heart? Just keep in touch with your ex-girlfriend, care about her, and know how she is doing now. Don't think that men are cold-hearted. If he knows what problems his ex-girlfriend has, most men will help. Women won’t do that. Many women will just ignore it.

It seems like this: who is more loyal and who is more ruthless, men or women? However, although men are loyal, they can also be amorous, so they appear to be fickle; while women are loyal, but they can also be ruthless, so they appear to be cold and heartless. There is a saying: Men are born for sex, women live for love, so men and women together are life.

2. Whose desire lasts longer?

It is easiest to classify by age. Men and women will show different states at different ages. Between the ages of 18 and 25, most women have more emotional needs in love. Men express more physiological needs, which is related to the vigorous hormone secretion in their bodies. Their desires and impulses come quickly and are very intense.

Between the ages of 25 and 35, women may have had emotional experiences and have a new understanding of love and sex. On her scale, love and sex weigh equally. Women’s sexual needs are like the process of farming, first sowing seeds and then sprouting. At this stage, men face greater work pressure and are more concerned about finding a future partner rather than just sexual needs. The vast majority of men are not as impulsive as they were when they were young, and their perspectives on women have changed a lot. They basically measure women by whether they are suitable to be a wife.

Between the ages of 35 and 45, men begin to feel powerless and their desires start to decline. If they do not exercise or are under a lot of work pressure, some men become less and less sexually active every year after the age of 30. His sexual pleasure expands from an initial point, concentrated in the genital area, to physical and mental pleasure. On the contrary, a woman's life is relatively easy at this time. Her children have grown up and she has plenty of time. She wants to liberate herself and make herself happy, so her excitement is focused on the reproductive system.

3. Is watching pornographic websites obscene?

Men are much more likely to access pornographic websites than women. He wandered there, which was like visiting a zoo, watching many performances, and perhaps wishing he could become a protagonist in them. Women basically don't touch it and they are disgusted by it and think it is dirty.

In fact, men like to visit pornographic websites just like women like to read fashion magazines to look at clothes, jewelry, and popular colors. It's just a hobby, there's nothing wrong with that. Men may think that although they cannot experience it personally, they can at least take a look at all kinds of women and satisfy their curiosity about women. Women cannot understand why men love to visit pornographic websites, just as men cannot understand why women like to look at and buy clothes so much. This explanation may be easier for women to accept. If we simply say that men are obscene for visiting pornographic websites, it is unfair to them and will make women more disgusted with such websites. We are not advocating that women should watch it, but we are advocating that women should understand and know what men like.

4. Who is more exploratory in bed?

Because men are exposed to more things, they are more willing to try new things in bed. Women have seen less and their imagination is not as rich. Even if it's just role-playing games, like playing house as a child, some women find it difficult to accept, let alone S/M. However, if two people want to have a wonderful sex experience, they must dare to innovate. The same old way of having sex will always make people bored.

Just like cooking, if you often use these seasonings, the taste may be the same. If you change them and learn other cuisines, the final feeling will be completely different. If a man proposes a certain type of sexual intercourse, such as anal sex, and a woman thinks it will hurt or be uncomfortable, both parties should communicate well and learn together. Whether we can accept a certain approach depends on our education, and this is also where our bottom line lies. The premise of sex is that neither party is hurt and the purpose is happiness.

5. Who is more likely to have an extramarital affair?

On the surface, it seems that there are more men. But that’s not necessarily the case. Maybe it’s because men like to show off in front of their friends, while women are more secretive. In addition, there are also economic reasons. Many expenses incurred in extramarital affairs are usually paid by men. In a family, if the man cheats first, the woman will not let go of the opportunity, mainly for the purpose of revenge on her husband. Generally speaking, when a woman has an extramarital affair, she first needs to satisfy her emotional needs, followed by her physical needs. Men may pay more attention to experiencing novelty and change. Women tend to get more deeply involved, believing that this is an opportunity to change their lives. They have high expectations and are more determined to divorce. When a man has an extramarital affair, he may maintain a long-term relationship with his lover, but he basically does not want to destroy his original family.

6. Is there such a thing as excessive sex?

A women's magazine says there's no such thing as too much sex. But we also see examples like this: some women think their husbands are too sexually demanding and want sex every day, and eventually break up. This is because sexual needs vary at different ages. When you are young, you may only want to have a relationship and not have sex. When you are older, you may also only want to have sex and not have a relationship. Moreover, sex is like eating. Some people eat a lot, some eat a little. It cannot be stipulated that eating three meals is the most beneficial.

Some people may not be full with three meals a day, so it’s okay to eat more meals. It still depends on each person's mental state and the needs of oneself and one's partner. What both parties want to achieve is a state of harmony, so the emphasis is on negotiation and then doing what one can. If a couple has a good relationship, it is normal not to have sex for a month, or it is not excessive to have sex seven times a week. It all depends on the needs of the two people.