Is premature love the bitter fruit or happiness?

The desire to interact with the opposite sex is a common psychological characteristic among middle school students and is quite common. Generally speaking, from childhood to adolescence to youth, in the process of growth and development, the understanding and experience of sex can be roughly divided into five stages: ignorance, confusion, admiration, first love, and love.

There is a reason why parents do not allow their children to have a romantic relationship in middle school.

Because middle school is the golden period of a person's growth - sharp thinking, strong thirst for knowledge, good memory, strong competitive spirit and abundant energy. In such a good time, you should learn a wide range of knowledge, improve your quality, and work hard to create your own bright future. This is the wisest choice in life.

During this period, no matter how many boys like you or who you like, you should always have an old idea in your heart - welcome friendship, reject love, and don't be too intimate with anyone during your relationship. A person's inner beauty often requires many interactions and many aspects.

Only by contact can you discover it. Middle school students are still children. Their understanding of society is still superficial and their worldview has not yet been fully formed. If they rely on momentary emotional impulses and fall into the misunderstanding of "premature love" too early, nine out of ten times they will suffer the bitter fruit of regret. There are many girls in society who have fallen into misfortune due to premature love and have learned painful lessons.

Therefore, I advise all middle school students to listen to their parents' advice and focus their main energy on studying. Of course, you shouldn’t just study hard, and it doesn’t mean you can’t interact with the opposite sex, but just don’t “go astray” during the interaction.

For example, you should participate in some social activities and have fun with male classmates; maintain friendly relationships with the opposite sex and learn from their strengths. These are all right.