Why do men like to hide their private money?

In today's family life, it is not strange that women hold economic power. However, from a man's perspective, he has to hand over his monthly salary, so where does the money for expenses come from? In this way, the reason why men hide their private money seems understandable. Today, the editor will reveal the secrets of men's psychology to you. Only when women understand men better can they ensure a long-lasting marriage!

1. If a man needs money to support his parents, his wife needs to support him unconditionally.

Men cannot neglect their concern for their parents after getting married, but women don’t like men to donate their salary to their parents. Therefore, fearing the pressure of being controlled by their wives, men have to live frugally and secretly save money for their parents.

It is a duty to be filial to parents. But if you don’t even have the freedom to give some money to your mother, how can you not force your husband to save some money for himself?

2. If a man wants to hang out with friends and have a few drinks, give him enough money and let him go.

In today's society, men have relatively more pressure in life than women, but most men are unwilling to expose that pressure to their families. Therefore, regular gatherings with his friends can help husbands relieve stress.

As the saying goes, "Wine makes cowards brave." A man who has drunk a little may curse his boss, curse the unfairness in society, and of course, he may also curse his wife, haha.

After scolding, he felt relieved and went home to be a good husband again.

Chinese men all attach great importance to their face. If your husband goes out to eat with friends and doesn't pay the bill, how will his friends judge him? Or if it's his turn to pay the bill but he doesn't have enough money, wouldn't that be very embarrassing?

What the husband needs at this time is generosity and magnanimity. If you give him enough face in front of his friends, he will naturally be grateful to his dear wife.

3. Dress yourself up and make your husband look handsome.

I often see this phenomenon: a couple goes out together, the wife is dressed up nicely, but the husband's outfit is a bit lackluster. To put it bluntly, he looks a bit like a "migrant worker" (I don't mean to belittle migrant workers, I just mean that compared with his wife, the husband's outfit is really bad).

In fact, although these husbands don't say it, they are probably dissatisfied in their hearts. I give all my money to you, why do you wear all the clothes yourself? It would be great if the wife could dress herself up and make her husband look handsome at the same time, and the couple could make progress together.

I believe that when someone compliments your husband on his well-dressed and handsome appearance, he must be grateful to you, his gentle and gracious wife. He doesn't have to worry about anything, so would he still think of hiding some private money?

4. Be honest about your spending. Don’t understate how much you spend on yourself and overstate how much you spend on your husband.

I once saw a program on TV where one of the guests expressed his dissatisfaction with his wife. He said his wife spent 4,000 yuan to buy a bag, but when she came home she might tell him that she spent 400 yuan. But I bought my husband a discounted piece of clothing for 100 yuan, but told him that it cost 1,000 yuan. What’s infuriating is that the next day after the wife bought clothes for the husband, when the two of them were shopping together, the husband discovered that the clothes his wife bought for him for 1,000 yuan were only worth 100 yuan after discount. I guess even though my husband doesn't say it, he must be full of dissatisfaction in his heart. Why do you say that the expensive things you bought are less, but the cheap things you bought for me are more? It’s obvious that you think I’m a fool.

If the husband, who is unaware of the situation, brags about this dress to others and gets caught, that would be bad luck. In fact, just tell the truth. Your husband doesn’t care about the price of clothes, but he cares about your thoughtfulness in buying clothes for him.

Why do men like to hide their own money? Men still need to have more money in their wallets. There are many places where money needs to be spent, such as taking a taxi, helping buddies and friends in emergencies, and contributing to the company. If the husband does not feel disappointed when spending money, he will definitely not think about hiding his own money anymore.