This way you will be very happy!

The key to achieving sexual happiness is to know how to ignite yourself. Maybe you and your husband already know what turns you on, but if you haven't tried anything new in a while, take advantage of the long vacation to explore some new areas of excitement.

You can first have some experiences when you are alone, such as lying in bed and imagining how you most want the other person to tease you. Listen to your own heart when you are most quiet, and you will get the most secretive but truest thoughts. Knowing how to "ignite" yourself is the best gift you can give to yourself and him.

Full of sexy taste

Perhaps few people can remember what kind of pajamas they wore during the most romantic honeymoon period, but sexy clothes can indeed make people more "hot" and generate "sexual" interest than those ordinary big T-shirts or thick pajamas.

A survey shows that women need foreplay more than men, otherwise it is difficult to get into a passionate state. So, create a sexy atmosphere for yourself and him. Just imagine, sexy lingerie, faintly visible skin, subtle fragrance, smooth silk sheets, flickering scented candles, sexy eyes and lips. All of these will make you unable to control yourself.

Maintain close contact frequently

To ensure that leisure time is "explosive", there must be some intimate contact every day, such as an arm around his shoulders or holding hands while watching TV, or a big hug when he walks in the door. Feel loved and felt loved every day, and your body will feel the same way.

Concentrate on enjoying the "sexual" happy moment

Work, family, friends, maybe you have too many things to worry about in a day, even when you are enjoying that wonderful moment. This happens more often to women because they tend to be more easily distracted than men and cannot be as intermittent as men. Women's feelings at this moment fluctuate greatly and will quickly drop to the bottom, from which it is difficult to recover. This means that if you start, you won't be able to continue if you get distracted, and you will completely ruin the wonderful moment.

If you want to be able to enjoy the moment without interruption, eliminate all sources of distraction before you begin. Before you dive into your passion, make a list of everything you haven't done, and then do them one by one. This way, you can focus on enjoying the wonderful moments with your partner without any distractions.

Learn to "cheat"

When you have children, the focus of your life shifts. But don’t forget that the relationship between husband and wife still needs to be maintained, so be a smart parent and try to have a secret affair behind your child’s back.

Maybe no one would suggest you to leave your child in front of the TV for a long time, but if you really can't spare more time alone, you might as well try to avoid your baby's sight at an appropriate time (such as one morning during a long vacation) and let him watch his favorite TV shows alone, while you can do whatever you want in the bedroom. Of course, remember to lock the door. Don't worry that this will be bad for your children. You also need your own private space without being disturbed by anyone.

Buy yourself an adult toy

Variety, freshness and fun - these are the spices that experts add to a happy sexual life, and adult toys can meet the above three points. There is a wide range of choices when it comes to adult toys. For beginners, it is best to choose something that is more comfortable to use, such as an oscillator. It is not like some simulated adult toys that can easily make first-time users feel embarrassed and uncomfortable.

If you already have a basic gift and are prepared for more, choose an adult toy that can be used by both of you.

Confess your dissatisfaction

Whether you admit it or not, most women have had this experience: while your husband is enthusiastically trying out the positions and methods he thinks are best, you lie there helplessly, counting in your mind and hoping that he will finish soon.

Many women also often fake pleasure or even orgasm because they feel that if they criticize their partners in this regard, it will embarrass or hurt them.

Instead of considering his face and enduring or being disappointed again and again, it is better to find a good time and tell him your thoughts tactfully. But be sure to be careful with your approach and don't say something rude like "You never do this" or "I don't like you doing this at all." Try saying, "I like you to touch me gently instead of pinching me hard." Or "I don't really like this way, can we try another way?" The other person won't think you are rejecting or blaming him, but will do what you say, and you can get the caress you really want.

Praise the other person generously

Many women are embarrassed to communicate with their husbands about sex. But if he's doing a great job and you're thoroughly enjoying it, why not tell him? It's just as important to tell your husband what he's doing well as it is to tell him what he's not doing well. So, when your husband touches your sensitive parts, remember to respond, such as moaning, to indicate to him that you enjoy it, or to praise him afterwards.

When giving compliments, don't forget to mention the details, as this is a kind of affirmation to the other person. The more praise he gets, the prouder he will be and the better he will do.

Learn to get into the state

Men and women's needs are not usually in sync. Maybe most of the time you just want to be intimate with your husband before going to bed at night, and then you can sleep soundly for 8 hours. But your husband always makes demands anytime and anywhere. Refuse? That would be disappointing; agree? That would be a bit reluctant. Then let's just make the best of it. You have to know how to get into the state and learn to enjoy it to the fullest.

A foreign study shows that sexual pleasure accounts for a large part of a person's sense of happiness. So, don’t think that this is a compromise with your husband. It is actually a compromise with your happiness. Who would refuse happiness?