Nowadays, women's battlefield is in bed.

At my age now, I really don’t want to please anyone anymore. I will be with whoever I feel comfortable with, including friends. If I feel tired, I will stay away. If you like me and I like you, then we will be together. If neither of us like each other, then don’t force it. I am no longer at the age where I have to like you even if you don’t like me. What’s more, if you like me, then I will try to like you too.

Most people know what love is. It is nothing more than being with the one you love day and night and being in love with each other. Then they happily walk into marriage hand in hand, and marriage is the best destination of love.

However, if you ask what marriage is, I believe there will be a thousand different answers for a thousand people.

In fact, the question of what marriage is is really very simple, just two words: sleep!

Why? Why is this? Food, clothing, housing and transportation are the four most important things in life. As for the three aspects of food, clothing and transportation, there is basically no qualitative change whether you live alone or with your lover. The only qualitative change is sleeping.

In the past, you slept alone in bed, with a single pillow and a big quilt. When it’s cold, you have to warm your bed by yourself, and when it’s hot, no one cares about you. When haunted by nightmares, he could only pretend that he was not afraid, acting like a complete hero. But suddenly there is someone around you, and you find that everything is different.

Every night, you rack your brains to have a passionate or sweet night with him or her. Even if there are no material conditions to serve as a backdrop for a luxurious romantic night, the three words "warm bed" in the folk saying "wife, children and a warm bed" are enough to illustrate the importance of sleep in marriage. To be honest, sex actually plays a vital role in marriage. So, marriage is as simple as two people sleeping together.

As the saying goes, one night of love brings a hundred days of grace. For men and women who fulfill their responsibilities and make contributions in marriage, even if they eventually separate, the memories of the warm night in the hibiscus tent will be unforgettable. Even if you say without expression that you have forgotten, no one can guarantee that you will not compare the new person with the old one when having sex with him/her. Such thoughts are not deliberate, but completely unconscious behaviors, and are also due to human nature of liking new things rather than getting tired of old things.

Women are better. After having physical contact with a man, they will wholeheartedly want to live with this man. As for the past, I can actually completely erase all traces of it from my heart. But men can't do that. Otherwise, why are there so many men who are always wavering between their wife and their mistress? Why is he reluctant to give up his principal wife and marry the second, third or fourth mistress who has been waiting for him for many years?

So, even if the mistress defeats the principal wife and wins the title of mistress, she only possesses the man's body. No matter how charming or capable she is, she can never erase the original wife from a man's heart.

If you meet a unreasonable woman who speaks ill of the original wife in front of the man all day long, the ending is just one word: get out! What's even more ignorant is the abuse of men and their original wives' children. Except for those cowardly men, they may tolerate it. If you change to anyone else, they will make you leave in a more miserable way and without dignity.

As the saying goes, a night of love is worth a hundred days of grace. Although the grace between a man and his original wife may not be as heavy as a mountain, it is definitely a grace that cannot be replaced by the mistresses. After all, no matter how long you spend with him, you can never be as close to the time he spent with his original wife.

The reason why you lose is that you come to know others later. It is like eating. No matter whether the first bite you take is delicacies from land and sea or simple meals, even if it is digested and there is not much left, the nutrients it provides you are absorbed by your body at the first time.

Being unfaithful is not a sin, but a habit that cannot be changed in human nature. If a man says that he is not unfaithful and only loves one woman, he is either hypocritical and pretentious, or his lower body is not good enough. No normal woman would want or desire a man who can't do that!

A smart woman will not care about a man's occasional infidelity. If he still remembers the way home and gives you all his salary, he will still maintain harmony in his marriage with you. Just let him play. Men are like children. Children's nature is to play. He will go home naturally after playing enough. And one more thing you must remember, keep his thing clean and don't bring back sexually transmitted diseases! The best way to prevent sexually transmitted diseases from entering your home is to put enough condoms in the secret places in his briefcase!

Of course, you also have to remember to develop the habit of opening the door every day, so that he won't be unable to enter the house or your bed when he comes home late. This is equivalent to pushing him into the arms of the three men!

As long as you can be tolerant of a man and give in to him in every way, no matter how great the temptations are outside and how many mistresses there are, he will still be yours in the end, and he will be willing to stay with you for the rest of his life. Because, after going through all kinds of hardships, he will suddenly have a change of heart and realize that he can no longer lose you in his life. More importantly, he is used to your presence day and night!

The most annoying things are those women who, once they find out their men are pregnant, resort to all the methods Wang Xifeng used - crying, making a fuss, and threatening to commit suicide. Don't think too highly of yourself. Even a woman as powerful as Wang Xifeng could not save herself from the fate of being abandoned. You are not even as good as one of her fingers, and yet you still have the nerve to use such despicable tricks against your man. This means that either you are out of your mind or you are really so confused that you don't want the man to come back to you.

You said your man’s thing is not a disposable item and it won’t break, so what are you afraid of? If you annoy the man by making such a fuss, and he revokes your right to use his property, it will be too late for you to turn back.

Don't forget, you are the most authoritative person who can use his thing permanently, and those mistresses may be happier and more fulfilled than you temporarily, but they can't monopolize your man's thing forever, because no matter how good those mistresses are, they are just passers-by after all.

It's the same as when a man has diarrhea occasionally and spends a little too long squatting in the toilet. So when a man cheats, just treat him as going to the toilet and he will come back naturally after finishing his job.

There is also a saying that goes, "A couple quarrels at the head of the bed but makes up at the foot of the bed." This is an irreversible truth. It is said that there is no overnight hatred between husband and wife. After quarreling, fighting and scolding, they sleep at night and comfort each other with their bodies. When they wake up the next day, they are still laughing and eating, drinking, and loving each other as before.

But San'er was not like that. She didn't dare to argue because she knew that the magic weapon to make this married man spend money on her was to be as gentle as a cat and obedient without any dignity. Don’t you see that when the three guys quarrel, the outcome they face is still the same word: get out! There are rarely any mistresses who continue to be favored after a big quarrel. This is the reality, because mistresses are just snacks for men after dinner, and no matter how delicious the snacks are, they will get boring eventually. The principal wife may be as plain as water, but she is absolutely indispensable for a lifetime.

Therefore, when facing a man who is entangled by mistresses, first calm down, analyze the situation, do not panic, and then take appropriate measures according to different situations. But no matter what method you use, don't forget to secretly learn all kinds of ways to act coquettishly and use your unique charm to satisfy the thing in his lower body, so that he feels that leaving you is the biggest loss.

Remember, men are more despicable than women. Women's battlefield is not outside, but in their own bed. Don't embarrass men in a gossipy way or argue with them like a shrew. Take good care of your bed and conquer men in it!