Do you know 10 gender issues women have?

1. Do I know my own body as well as I know his?

A common complaint from women is, "He never finds my sweet spot." Of course we expect men to have no trouble finding our sweet spot, but should we give them a little more guidance? This thin, pea-sized piece of tissue is located between the labia majora - at the top, and the nerves that control it run all the way down to the deepest part of the pelvis. The most basic condition for caressing this area is not to touch that point too directly. Because there are too many nerve endings gathered there, too strong stimulation at once will make women feel uncomfortable. You can try starting from the labia, slowly rubbing the edge of the vagina, and then covering the entire private area with a little pressure. This process will make you feel more intense pleasure and increase your excitement.

2. How do I understand sex?

Women these days have a lot to worry about - careers, bank statements, and, of course, sex lives. However, if you grew up in a family with relatively conservative sexual concepts, the education you received would make you subconsciously regard sex as a shameful topic. These beliefs may not come into play when you're talking about sex with your friends, but they can affect your judgment of what you should actually do in the bedroom. When you want to completely get rid of these burdens, you can make a list of all the wrong ideas you have accepted and then transform them. For example, "Only bad women are keen on sex" can be changed to "Every woman desires a perfect sexual climax."

3. What is my path to orgasm?

What kind of caress makes us feel more comfortable? What speed and process is more suitable for you? Is there a regular and ideal way to slowly bring you to orgasm? If you can't answer the above questions, then solve them one by one. Knowing how to give yourself pleasure is the key to enjoying it. For example, Amanda's way of masturbating is to imagine having two men serving her at the same time, while Fiona likes to caress her belly while masturbating. When you discover your best way to orgasm, share it with your partner, or simply help yourself when you are close to climaxing.

4. Am I satisfied with my body?

How satisfied you are with your body can directly and greatly affect your sexual desire. Laura had always been satisfied with her sexual orgasm life before she had her baby. But after becoming a mother, she gained weight, her previous perky butt disappeared, and fat started to accumulate on her belly, all of which made her feel ashamed of herself. Whenever her husband touched these parts, she would subconsciously push his hands away, which eventually led to her beginning to reject sexual climax. Many women try to hide the imperfect parts of their bodies during sex. The treatment the doctor gave Laura was to ask her to keep a diary to record the changes in her body every day. A month later, she gave up on the record and just accepted the reality.

5. Is everything controlled by him?

Ideally, the answer is of course yes - you certainly want better results. However, many women think that their partner's feelings are more important. Sally has read almost everything there is to know about oral sex, but even so, she still feels flustered every time her husband asks her for it, unsure of which method to use. In fact, just think about how you feel when you satisfy him and you will understand that he must be very happy when he satisfies you.

6. Does having sex have to have a reason?

Many women feel empty, sad, and still alone after having sex. It’s one thing to have imperfect sex with the one you love, and another to feel bad about yourself because of it. When your sexual climax is over without you even changing your position in bed, it would be strange if you didn't feel depressed. Why not take a minute to recall the final stage of the lovemaking process, how you felt and why you had sex in the first place? The quality of sex is always a key issue. Some people have many "great" reasons for having sex: it's an anniversary; they're planning to have a baby... and some reasons are not so "great": avoiding quarrels; wanting to find someone to love you; worrying that he will leave you if you don't want to... It seems that having sex without a reason would make people more satisfied. A WeChat that will make you blush: se5332, do you dare to add it?

7. Can I name the 5 areas that I most want to be caressed?

In order to get a truly satisfying sexual climax, women should definitely find out the sexy areas hidden under sexy underwear. A said that stimulating her nipples can make her feel excited, B said that gently stroking the inside of her knees can easily make her feel crazy, and C's most sensitive area is behind her right ear. So all you ladies out there take note. Whether using a feather, a vibrator or your own fingers, find your top 5 sensitive areas. Rest assured, there are at least 5 places for everyone . Tell your significant other where they are hiding.

8. Do I have vaginal depression?

Many women are anxious about the size of their labia and the smell of their vagina. In fact, what they really want to ask is: "Is it normal there?" As early as 1970 , gynecologists advised women to find a mirror, hold it under their private parts and observe themselves carefully. Some experts even joked: "Unless your labia are so big that they rub your underwear, you are normal!" Whether you believe it or not, men often compliment young women, "She is so beautiful when she lies there!" What's more, you shouldn't care what men think when they face you. What's important is that you have confidence in your charm. If you keep feeling like there's something wrong with you, no one can help you.

9. What do I look like 5 minutes after having sex?

After the sexual climax, look at yourself in the mirror - are your cheeks rosy and your eyes blurry, but are you still smiling, or are you frowning and feeling dissatisfied? Sometimes, we should look for the answer from the body itself, not from the brain. Your brain will sometimes tell you “I like this!” But at 2 a.m., your face won’t lie. If you don’t like the way you look at that moment, go back to bed and have a good sleep. When you are fully awake, ask yourself the 10th question, and maybe there will be a big change.

10. Should I tell him 90% of my true feelings? (You should choose to tell him or not the remaining 10% when you know the answer to question 7.)

Here are our suggestions for what to say to your partner, then ask for everything you need from him or her. You can't always be a passive waiter - even delicious dishes need to be baked, stir-fried, and seasoned, let alone you? Believe me, your lover can definitely meet all your needs.