Singles, will you find someone to fill your bed?

Every adult single man and woman will go through an emotional "window period" at some point, searching for someone, stopping and starting over, and their body will then enter the "empty bed period", with the other half of the bed overgrown with weeds. Nowadays, the Internet is omnipresent, and all kinds of displays of affection can find their way into any loophole, torturing single people to death in minutes. If you post a message in the WeChat group on May 20th, you will get a lot of dynamic hearts, and you can also wrap yourself up like a gift to act cute. Often at such moments, some people will put love aside and go out to have sex and find someone to "fill the bed" to satisfy their physical and psychological needs at that moment.

After being single for a long time, would you find someone to "fill your bed" temporarily?

Men are more likely to do so. Anyway, physical loneliness is definitely more difficult for them to bear than mental loneliness, so they do more than they think. Most women will do the same, but it is difficult for women to get into the mood without love, and it is not easy to get out of bed once in bed, so there are many women who think about it, but not as many as men who actually do it.

Many single men will not be idle. Even if they disdain women, they will still yearn for a moment of ecstasy in the land of tenderness. Thus, the weeds on his bed simply moved to his heart, and grew wildly and without resistance. Although they can pay for sex, more men nowadays hope to date a so-called "good woman" and get straight to the point after having a meal and watching a movie. After the climax, they tend to run faster.

Among the single women who are willing to accept "filling the bed", many of them are because they have a good impression of the other party.

Unfortunately, few men will fall in love with someone just because they have had sex with her. They just treat her as a bargain that comes to their doorstep and they just take her. However, it is difficult for women to view going to bed as taking advantage of men. As a result, they lose to men psychologically, and their physical pleasure is compromised. After the climax, she would feel pain and even fall into a vicious circle of being hurt. Relying on having sex to create love and relying on having children to maintain a marriage are both women's sorrows.

Filling the bed is not a good thing but a misunderstanding for single men and women who long for emotional warmth in life.

Men and women who are looking for someone to "fill their bed" may also have normal physiological needs behind the hookup. Emotionally speaking, no one wants to think of themselves as an animal whose sexual organs need to be rubbed to get them horny. If you cannot eliminate the physical loneliness, you will have to endure greater spiritual loss. Over time, you will easily deviate from the normal emotions between men and women, and then it will not just be half of the bed that will be left deserted.

It seems that the man is having a lot of fun, but in fact he is sure that the woman can't afford it. If the woman really runs faster than him afterwards, the man will definitely be the one who gets hurt. Many times, the reason why men don’t cherish women is because women always get along with them without getting along. What they offer actively may not be love, but rather a sign of humiliation.

None of us has the right to expand the scope of morality

Not only do they control everything, they also control who goes to bed with them. Single men and women who don't want to endure the empty bed period find someone to "fill their bed". This is a private matter, but the game requires rules, so you'd better choose the person who "fills your bed". Otherwise it would be too casual and safety and hygiene would not be guaranteed, let alone true happiness.

If you indiscriminately pick the "trees in front of the house" and the "grass beside the yard", you will end up being deserted by your friends and relatives. If you also get your superiors, subordinates, and other people's husbands or wives into bed, the bed will become more and more empty, and you may even have a mental burden, causing many social problems.

Of course, find ways to fill the emotional void in your life.

It is always more reliable than finding someone to fill the empty bed temporarily. You should know that if you can't open the window of your heart, no new breath can come in. Even if someone falls in love with your bed, love may still be a long way off. Some people will hold on to the idea of ​​"looking for a horse while riding a donkey", and stop and go on the road of hooking up for one night stands and "filling the bed". I am afraid that after a long time, you will develop the temper of a donkey and will never be able to find a horse again.

There are too many single women around me who are filled with insecurity and complain about disappointment in love and men. They cannot appreciate the joy of being single and are overwhelmed by loneliness. They cannot let go of the departure of others and their hopes are obscured by the coldness.

In fact, a woman with love in her heart may also choose to be single. At some special moments in life, taking a different path and seeing different scenery can make her life more wonderful. With the development of the times and the continuous changes in people's values, being single will become a lifestyle that men and women in today's society actively choose. It is close to happiness and not far from happiness.

In addition to studying and working, learning to enjoy the little happiness in real life is also a must for single women

Including how to resolve loneliness and how to pick up hobbies to enrich your inner self. Don't always say that you are busy. Most of us, most of our time is far from being to the point where every second counts or every second is precious. Instead of being confused and unproductive in the so-called busyness, it is better to separate work and life, and be strictly self-disciplined and cautious. Even if you pursue your dreams and live with your heart alone, as long as you persist, you will benefit a lot.

Only when a woman knows how to cherish her body and emotions, does she deserve the best life and happiness in the world.