Women, if you learn to make love like in the movies, you are wrong

The intimate scenes of men and women in pornographic films can sometimes help people get excited. However, pornography is gradually misleading people's sexual concepts and methods, affecting their enjoyment of sexual pleasure. The following are some common sexual misunderstandings in pornographic films, and experts provide analysis and guidance one by one.

Myth 1: Every man is durable.

In porn movies, men have super strong sexual abilities and each sexual intercourse lasts for a long time. In fact, the longer sex lasts, the better. Eric Cotter, professor of sexology at Behrend College in Pennsylvania, USA, said that 7 to 13 minutes of actual sex is most appropriate, and men who deliberately persist will harm their bodies.

Misconception 2: Constantly changing body positions.

In pornographic films, men and women often use some novel postures, and even use 3 or more positions in one sexual intercourse. Dr. Debbie Herbernick of the Kinsey Institute for Sex Research in the United States pointed out that exaggerated movements and constant changes of posture may make people feel uncomfortable and delay the arrival of orgasm because orgasm requires continuous stimulation.

Misconception 3: Women get excited and scream easily.

Most of the heroines in porn movies have hot bodies. They get excited with just a little foreplay and even scream when they reach orgasm. Eric Cote pointed out that foreplay of about 20 minutes can best get a woman into the mood. In addition, not every woman likes to scream. Panting and flushing are the best criteria for judging orgasm.

Myth 4: Women like finger stimulation.

In many pornographic films, men use their fingers to stimulate women's vaginas. In fact, a survey in the United States found that 68% of women do not feel comfortable doing so, and that caressing her whole body would be more effective.

What can’t be imitated:

Don't touch too hard. The heroines in porn films are all trained professionals. This is their means of making a living, so they can cope with the "rough" touching of the male protagonists. This is usually done to cause visual stimulation, make the film more exaggerated, and enhance the temptation. When making love, men are advised to treat your sexual partners gently.

Don't look at her body during sex. Making love is the most shy moment for women. Don't stare at her at this time. Of course, in porn movies, this practice is allowed. If you even learn this method in the camera and look at her from head to toe as if she were a commodity, be careful not to get kicked off the bed.

Places to learn:

Make love with a relaxed mood. There is a big feature in porn movies, that is, the male and female protagonists are not so serious when it comes to sex. Sex should be a fun thing that can bring spiritual and physical enjoyment to both parties. Therefore, you must relax and be good at creating a relaxing atmosphere. Sometimes it’s okay to just “pretend to be stupid”.

Learn to perform foreplay. "A storm is about to come." If there is no "foreplay" before the "climax", it will seem a bit sloppy. Porn movies will teach you how to perform foreplay. The male and female protagonists will always spend some time teasing each other verbally, but you have to know that they are filming a movie, and the "foreplay" in real life should still be based on emotional communication.

Choose different places to have sex. In porn movies, actors always have sex in the most inconvenient places, but this location will make you feel ideal. So, why not try to learn from them and change the location of your sex life? Those seemingly uncomfortable environments may add some fun to your sex life. Cars, kitchens, and even gardens will all be something you’ll reminisce about.

After reading the above article, are you alert? Not all plots in pornographic films are worth promoting. We should take the essence, discard the dross, and look at them dialectically. Do you understand a lot?