The five psychological states of wives that scare their husbands the most

However, many women will develop some bad mentalities after getting married. They want their husbands to be successful and they desire more attention and happiness from men. Therefore, it is because of the existence of these bad mentalities that the relationship between the two gradually becomes extreme. So, what are the bad psychological states in their wives that men are most afraid of? Let’s find out together.

1. After living for a long time

After a couple has lived together for a long time, the wife will constantly complain to her husband: I have done my best to take care of you, why are you so picky? However, she does not realize that her consideration is not enough, and she always inadvertently neglects or belittles her husband's relatives and friends, which makes her husband feel embarrassed and causes his disgust.

2. Excessive desire to control the husband

The second bad psychological state is the excessive desire to control the husband. What is the desire to control the husband? When the husband is not in front of her, she will always be anxious and nervous and want to know what he is doing. No matter what decision she makes, she must get her consent. However, this "desire to control her husband" actually hurts herself, because she lives in fear all day long, unable to extricate herself from the anxiety.

3. No housewife awareness

Many women have poor household management skills, which can affect their marriage and family life. Although we are no longer in a society where "men work outside and women work inside", as a wife, you should play your family role well and be a new-age woman who is both capable of being a lady in the parlor and a good cook in the kitchen.

4. The slovenly mentality

In China, when women gradually enter middle age, their love of beauty will slowly fade away, especially for women who have just given birth, who will dress casually and no longer pay attention to grooming themselves. If they live their lives with a sloppy and careless attitude, how can there be any passion between husband and wife?

5. Comparative and vain

What can married women do when they get together? They compete with each other for vanity. For the sake of their vanity, they always blindly compete with each other without considering their own economic conditions. If she can't compare with others, she will blame her husband when she gets home.