The secret weapon to win over men in couples' lives

Men all love face. To them, face is more important than anything else. For this reason, there are some secrets about sex that they would never tell their women. In fact, men are not as strong, brave and fearless as we see them to be. In fact, they also have things to fear. For example, during sex, they will be afraid of many things.

Don't think that men are always the winners in bed. They expect a lot from sex and are also particularly vulnerable to being hurt. If you scold your man after sex three times in a row: You are useless! or reveal that you have never reached orgasm, your man's self-confidence will be damaged and his life will fall into low ebb.

In this survey, many men confessed that they did not have the courage to discuss these embarrassing issues with their girlfriends. "If my girlfriend asked me what I wanted her to do more for me during sex, I would think that she might think I was not capable enough to meet her needs."

1. How would you feel if a woman slept with you on the first date?

Men honestly say: If something is delivered to your door for free, you should take it. However, I can't help but feel weird. Is this kind of woman worth continuing to date?

Survey results: Half of the men believe that such women are a blessing and they are very happy to accept them. If they are good-looking, they may consider continuing the relationship.

Six men could not agree with this approach. They pointed out that women who sleep with men casually are very likely to have relationships with other men and are very unreliable. They doubt whether they can treat them sincerely after dating. Therefore, even if they really sleep with her, they must find out everything afterwards as a reference for future relationships.

Six men said that such open-minded women can bring them new excitement. Since such women usually have strong sexual abilities and make many demands, they worry about whether they can satisfy them.

Two men pointed out that this kind of woman may have other purposes, will she ask him for money? Or is she using herself as a tool to satisfy her sexual desire? Maybe this woman even has a sexually transmitted disease!

One man pointed out that he felt guilty.

Voiceover: Do you think men are really open to anyone? Unless they are visiting prostitutes or having one-night stands, men also have their own principles about who they want to have sex with.

2. Which part of your body do you think women often ignore that needs caressing the most?

Men honestly say: I really want my girlfriend's caress, but I am too embarrassed to say it. If she could be more considerate to me and understand my sensitive areas, how great would that be?

Survey results: It depends on the individual.

Neck: 2 digits. Testicle: 1. Back:5 positions. Chest: 10 digits. Nipple: 2. Ears: 4 bits. Near the anus: 2 digits. Inner thigh: 4 positions.

Voice-over: Men desire women's caress from the bottom of their hearts, especially the erogenous zones all over the body. They hope that women can give them electric shock-like touch considerately.

3. How long do you think a sexual intercourse should last at least?

Men will be honest: if foreplay is included, one hour is the most common time.

Survey results: 9 men pointed out that the duration of sex is not too important, as long as both parties are satisfied. As Cosmopolitan pointed out, 10 minutes of sex can also be passionate, right?

15 men said that from foreplay to ending, 30 minutes to 1 hour is the time they most want. These men believe that the time of sexual desire is not fixed. Sometimes they get sexually aroused while watching TV with their girlfriends, and they can have sex for at least 30 minutes while watching TV. Sometimes, they become excited when they see their girlfriends wearing particularly sexy clothes or when they receive other stimulations. At this time, the place of sex may not be on the bed, and the time is even more fixed. However, they are a little concerned about the time it takes to enter the human body, and most hope that it can last for about 5-10 minutes before they feel they are very excited.

5 men think that it takes 2 hours. The reason is that sex is a time of enjoyment. They hope that their girlfriends can be very satisfied and look forward to the next round. Therefore, foreplay is very important. They must create an atmosphere to enter the most romantic state. After entering, the subsequent caressing is the key to enhance the relationship between the two. Therefore, it takes at least two hours.

Another man needed 4 hours. But, wouldn’t this be too much?

Voice-over: It is a great achievement to be able to last for 5 minutes during penetration, but men’s desire for foreplay and caressing is no less than that of women. More importantly, men always hope to have a good sex time to satisfy their vanity and prove their ability.

4. What do you hate your girlfriend doing most during sex?

Men will be honest: sex is a matter of cooperation between two people, and we hate it most when women are not focused.

Survey results: 15 men hate women who are absent-minded and feel like they are just dealing with themselves. If a man is fully engaged, but the woman is staring at the TV, yawning, talking on the phone, etc., these are taboos for men in bed. 5 men don’t like it when their girlfriends suddenly ask them to wear condoms because it spoils the mood. 3 men don’t like women talking too much boring things. 2 of them can't stand some of their girlfriends' bad habits, such as scratching, farting, etc. Three men could not stand their girlfriends not moving at all, they said that they would rather not have such unconscious sex; one thought that his girlfriend was too proactive and rude which also made them feel disgusted. There was also one man who got furious when his girlfriend showed she was exhausted.

Voice-over: Everyone wants to enjoy the pleasure of love, but it is often ruined by certain behaviors of the other party. However, due to self-esteem and face, men would rather endure it and not say anything.

5. If a woman is too fat, would you want her?

Men honestly say: To be honest, having sex with a ridiculously fat woman is no different from having sex with a pile of pork. I hope women are not too fat, slightly fat or cutely fat is fine. If they are fat and disgusting, you can't blame men for being snobbish!

Survey results: 5 men cannot accept overweight women. But if they are just ordinary friends, fat girls don’t care, but once sex is involved, men still feel it is inappropriate. However, these men pointed out that if a woman gains weight after they have been dating, he will not abandon her. Instead, he will take her to exercise and help her lose weight in a healthy way.

20 men don’t mind if a woman is too fat, unless she has a particularly strange personality and poor hygiene habits, then they will reject fat women. As for the degree of fatness, it has to be within the range that he can tolerate. 5 men pointed out that they particularly like fat women. Why? I can't tell!

Voiceover: Men usually don't dislike women unless they are too fat. However, the degree of fatness must be within his tolerance range!

6. When you are about to climax, what do you want a woman to do for you?

The man said honestly: Hold me tighter! This request is simple, right?

Survey results: 18 men want women to hug them tightly, scream loudly, or moan rapidly to reach orgasm together. A man wants a woman to hold him tightly between her legs.

Two men want women to grab their backs hard. In addition, five men want women to give them oral sex at an appropriate time, sucking quickly and holding their penis in their mouths, which feels very exciting. A man wants a woman to swallow his semen. But there are 3 men who have no special requirements, just calling his name and making him feel that his girlfriend needs him!

Voice-over: As you approach the climax, certain small movements can help you reach climax quickly. In fact, when a man is about to reach orgasm, hugging him tightly can give him the greatest satisfaction.

7. What do you hate about women wearing makeup?

Men honestly say: We admit that makeup can make women more beautiful, but as long as women are clean and healthy, it doesn't matter whether they wear makeup or not. The most terrifying thing is women with heavy makeup. That feeling is like paint that may peel off at any time, greasy and dirty.

Survey results: 25 men hate women who wear heavy makeup the most. They pointed out that makeup should be light and pleasant. They don’t understand why some women can make themselves look like pudding or cake (because they apply too much powder), or even put on scary big blush and smell of cheap and inferior perfume. Is it necessary to do so? If it is for a stage performance, they don’t object.

5 men are afraid of the current popular makeup styles, such as thick eyebrows, blue eye shadow, bright red lipstick, colorful eye shadow, and black makeup. They feel it is really scary.

Voice-over: Although men judge people by their appearance, they don't want their girlfriends to dress up too much. They believe that light makeup, or even no makeup, is the most flattering when looking fresh and pleasant.

Perfect sex is based on mutual communication and understanding. If we have a deep understanding of what men fear and care about, we will be able to cooperate with him better and make sex more perfect.