Why do women have rape fantasies?

When men are having sex, they usually have an object of sexual fantasy, either the female colleague sitting opposite them, or a former middle school classmate, in short, someone they know and like a little. Women, like men, first take their real sex partner as the object of sexual fantasy, fantasizing about having sex with their lover in bed in the way they can imagine. The reason is simple. In addition to emotional factors, various sexual fantasies can only be realized if the body is within reach. It turns out that this kind of sexual fantasy is often more likely to stimulate the pleasure of lovemaking between lovers and prevent them from getting bored with each other.

In fact, the definitions of charming and enchanting are the same. A truth is that people who lack sexual fantasies have boring lives and lack interest. Sexual fantasy and eroticism are two different things, and it does not necessarily mean that all fantasies will become reality. This is precisely the advantage of fantasy. Sexologists point out that if there is no sexual fantasy during sexual enjoyment, it is difficult to reach a climax of pleasure.

Fantasy of having sex with another man

For women, they usually fantasize about old lovers. After having such thoughts, many women begin to suspect that they are sexually frigid or feel guilty about having feelings for the other person. Therefore, once they have this "insincere" thought, they will begin to blame themselves secretly and restrain themselves. The results of the psychological questionnaire show that almost all women have had this kind of "fantasy" experience about their old lovers to some extent, even when sleeping with the most charming men.

The fantasy of having sex with another man is that the object of the fantasy is usually a man who "could have been, but couldn't", a relationship that could not be realized for moral reasons or other regrettable reasons. Of course, women should give up the idea of ​​"having sex with all men they like", but temporary "inappropriate thoughts" do not mean cheating on their partners or being sexually indifferent.

Fantasy of making love with an "out of reach" man

They are usually public celebrities, which is due to a kind of "star worship" mentality, common with young girls and young women. Another type of fantasy object is "general objects", such as the opposite sex with strong muscles and large penis, criminals with barbaric temperament and rough behavior, or handsome young men with childish skin. These fantasy objects can arouse women's sexual desire more easily than ordinary people.

Fantasizing about having sex with another woman

Compared with boys, more girls fantasize about having same-sex sexual relations. The reason may be that relationships between women are more socially acceptable than relationships between men, and fewer people worry about becoming homosexuals. The object of their fantasy is usually a strange woman, but they can accurately imagine what will happen between the two of them.

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This will also cause many "good girls" to feel "inappropriate" guilt, or they may be afraid that their male partners will find it strange or make them suspicious without reason. But they all know that even if they only act it out in their minds, the pleasure they get will be similar to real lovemaking. For those women who are open-minded and free-spirited, they like to indulge in fantasy all the time, but after the fantasy, their expectations for real sexual experience are weakened. This type of fantasy includes "sweet threesomes" and group affairs with the sole purpose of venting sexual desire. The most common fantasy is to be wild in public. This is not only to stimulate your partner's sexual desire, but also to satisfy yourself.

Men's French Sex Fantasy

For many women, French sex is probably the most common and exciting way to indulge, so it is not difficult to understand why it is a common fantasy for almost all women. In a woman's fantasy, a man must be strong, handsome, tall and charming. He not only satisfies her special desires with French sex out of love, but also shows high passion, gives her oral sex for hours and becomes a slave to her desires... pounding heartbeat, rapid breathing, tense muscles... the man smears honey, ice cream, strawberries, cream on the woman's body or decorates it with flowers... Unfortunately, however, most women can only keep this desire in their sexual dreams.

Romantic sexual fantasies

Almost all women will admit this without hesitation, because it is the most acceptable and easiest to talk about among all kinds of "sexual fantasies". If a woman says, "I dreamed I was having sex with a handsome guy on a sunny tropical beach," it is definitely more feminine than saying, "I dreamed I was having French sex with a strong policeman." Reserved women tend to dream of the seaside, mountains, castles, manors, under the shade of willows, on boats, in the sun or in the moonlight... The scenes are different and the language of expression is different, but in a large number of questionnaires, almost no woman denies that she has had romantic sexual fantasies of one kind or another.

Sexual fantasies of being raped

Many women have fantasized about being raped "safely". Perhaps some people may find this ridiculous, unbelievable, or too far from reality. Women who imagine being "raped" in their minds only focus their fantasies on the form of sexual intercourse: forced, intense, and rapid...

For "good girls", they rarely fantasize about the physical pain of being "raped". In fact, this "fantasy of being raped" is far from the real criminal "rape". In other words, fantasy sexual rape is nothing more than a woman's fantasy of herself being "playfully" abused by an imaginary man like a cute doll, and it does not contain any real violence.

At the other extreme, some women tend to fantasize about being raped by a "rough man," and the relationship between them and the imagined man is often imagined to be as cold as a court trial or a business negotiation. The reason why such fantasy is attractive is that it makes it easier for women to believe that the fantasy object is "real". Fantasy that fascinates men

Almost all women fantasize about being a beautiful, slender, charming, and attractive woman, and fantasize about having a large group of men around them, flattering them, and being attentive to them, while they "control themselves," "control the men," and "control the situation," and always "grant" some outstanding man to be close to them... This fantasy is too common, because which woman doesn't want as many men as possible to fall at her feet?

Fantasy of prostitution

This is a kind of "sexual fantasy" that is very embarrassing to talk about. Most women are shy in sex. Sexual fantasies about "having sex for money" can help them dispel this "social" shyness and inspire their true sexual desire in their subconscious in dreams. What is the reason for this? Because "obligatory sex" contains more emotional and moral factors, which more or less conceal or suppress the "original desire". If a man pays for sex with her, then the woman can be temporarily freed from this "spiritual bondage" to a certain extent. There is another reason. When men pay, they will definitely choose beautiful, charming and capable women, which shows that their charm is so great that there is a reason why men are willing to pay to have sex with them, that is, women can arouse their sense of guilt to a certain extent through this imagination. This abnormal psychological state can excite their bodies, stimulate their sexual ability, and satisfy their "sexual violence" psychology.

Sexual fantasies about a strange man

In real life, this kind of sex is rarely successful, however, this fantasy scene can arouse strong passion in women. Usually, for many women, realistic, repetitive, single-object sex is boring and lacks novelty, while imagination about strange men adds a meaning of "pure sexual desire". The objects of their imagination are "faceless men". Men attack her from behind, and she cannot see but can only feel it. The value of this fantasy lies in its mystery.