Why are men always crazy about "confidante"?

Every man, whether he is married or single, wants to have a female friend by his side who is more than friendship but less than love. The closest relationship between opposite sexes, such as "confidante", is defined in such pure and ambiguous words. Does such a relationship really exist in the world? Is there really such a so-called pure friendship?

Phrases like "love grows over time" and "there is a long way to go" tell many people that in a man's eyes, his so-called "close female friend" is just someone he wants to find an emotional sustenance for. It may not be for love, but it is definitely dependence, habit, or it may be a prelude to cheating. Men will be reserved when facing their wives, but when facing their "confidante", they can lower all their postures and say whatever they want to say. They can talk about any problems in their feelings to this woman. I believe that few men can really avoid deviating from the rules when facing such a woman who understands them! Men are always so fond of their "confidante" because she can give him a different feeling in many things!

I don’t monopolize you, but I share the same thoughts with you. She understands everything you say, and even a glance from you can tell what you want to do. It seems that this woman is so smart, but in fact, it is not the case. Because they have been together for a long time, many things have become a habit. No matter whether they are men or women, they are so sensitive in their emotions. Whatever you want to say or do, it is all within each other's control.

A gentle embrace. When facing his wife, a man will choose to be more tolerant and forgiving even if he knows she is being unreasonable. However, when facing his beloved, a man will want to tell her about, for example, the emotions in marriage, the pressure at work, or his current life situation, etc. Such a man looks very mature, but in fact he is very fragile. When facing a gentle woman, a man will want to put down all his burdens, get drunk, and release all those long-suppressed emotions in front of her. This is absolutely not allowed for male friends. Even if others don’t know, he himself cannot act pitifully in front of the same sex. Female confidants are not scary. They feel sorry for men’s occasional weakness in front of them and prefer to truly experience this weakness.

Confidantes are usually very smart. If a woman wants to be eternal in a man's life, she must either be his mother or a confidante that he will never have. After all, a confidante encompasses many things. Love is too short, marriage is too boring, only a close female friend lasts forever. Therefore, women who are content to be a man's confidante are usually open-minded and smart.

Smart men might actually enjoy it. You may meet a good woman. If your confidante becomes your woman, what should you do if you meet another woman who is equally lovely or even more charming? The possessiveness of ordinary men will not let her go, but bigamy is not allowed.

But it is hateful and illegal; lovers have too much lust that will make themselves trapped in love inexplicably. A smart man should treat the best woman in his mind as his confidante, turn his love into friendship and give it to her, love his wife at home and support his confidante outside. This is all wishful thinking on the part of men. I wonder if the woman in your mind is willing? This is the reason why men can never find a confidante in their entire lives.

Dedication without asking for anything in return. When a man's career fails, how many wives who stay by his side can truly help him? Many people say that many couples can share the joys, but few can share the hardships. When a man is at his lowest point and his wife leaves him, he will fall to the bottom psychologically. However, at this time, the appearance of his confidante will silently care for him, help him, and silently accompany him to work hard again. This confidante not only does what ordinary friends do, but also gives the wisdom and tenderness unique to women. In fact, this is the case, because for a man’s confidante, his own happiness and success are the rewards she wants.