Women should learn the most powerful flirting method

Regardless of the length of your marriage, moderate flirting is an indispensable part. A new study reportedly shows that while men often take the lead in relationships, the power of flirting lies in the hands of women. Because when facing a man she likes, a woman will send signals through small actions to encourage the other party to "take action." Among them, gazing affectionately is the "flirting method" that women are best at.

How many advanced flirting methods do you know without words?

1. Long-term flirting

If you are a bit timid and have trouble staying confident in social situations, then "long-term" flirting is more suitable for you, that is, a distant and fleeting exclamation to a "flirtatious stranger". Sometimes you may encounter this kind of "long-line" flirting yourself. The most basic form is that someone shouts to you: "Oh, what a beautiful lady!" The man is at a distance from you so that you don't feel offended but only find it very interesting, and truck drivers never get tired of this practice.

"Long-term" flirting is very common because it does not require a lot of courage and has a low risk factor. Don't be rude when flirting; your goal is to make others smile, not scare them. And don't think this is just for men; women today are different from before and can take this kind of quick action often.

One day, he was jogging in the park, and a lady drove past on a motorcycle or a convertible and shouted to him, "Hey, boy!" The car whizzed past and there was loud laughter. Would he feel annoyed? No, he felt happy all day.

A recent study showed that men find women who flirt more attractive than those who don't, so be bold and just make sure you don't make a bad impression. In addition, the time for "long-term" flirting should be chosen appropriately (for example, it would not be appropriate to do so at 2 a.m. while walking in a noisy part of the city).

2. Advanced Flirting

If you're not satisfied with "long-term" flirting and want to have a more lasting communication, you can consider the following flirting techniques:

The role of praise: Compliments should be given directly to the other person rather than just to an object. If you say, "I like your tie," the man will be confused as to whether you like the tie or the man, so you should say, "You look really cool in that tie. It makes your eyes look extra clear."

3. Show that you are listening

Nod and praise from time to time, and after the other person finishes speaking, think for a second before quickly answering. Because, you may have noticed, in a one-on-one situation, the more you think about what to say, the more flustered and tongue-tied you become, and there will be such a lull in the conversation.

Try to bring the topic back to what you have already talked about, rather than rushing to start a new topic. Bringing up old topics shows that you have listened carefully and are interested in the conversation, thus ensuring that the conversation can continue. You don't have to always rack your brains to find a great topic to drive the conversation.

4. Provide help to others

If she mentions that her car is parked eight blocks away and she's leaving late that evening, you could offer to walk her to get it. If he's carrying several bags, you can offer to hold a grocery bag for him. If she mentions that she's planning to paint her house, you can suggest a store where she can buy cheap paint (or offer to bring a brush and help out). You want to deepen the relationship and increase understanding by showing that you are willing to help the other person and make his or her life easier.

5. Ask targeted questions

Don't talk too much with just some acquaintance, don't pry into other people's privacy. Questions like "Where did you grow up?" or "Do you like horror movies?" are more lighthearted and appropriate, and they show that you're willing to get to know the other person. Please don't ask heavy questions that are "too big to ask" such as "What is your purpose in life?"

Show your cheerful and easy-going charm. You can tell him that you saw him at that boring meeting. You can bring up a topic she talked about last week. You can tell him that you like his new haircut. You can tell her how relaxed and fascinating you were when you first heard her laugh.

6. Eye contact

Look into the other person's eyes for at least one second, but don't stare. Then look away, giving the other person time to figure out that you're staring at him or her (and not someone else around you). Then look at the other person again, this time with a smile on your face. There may be several ways to pass each other and get to the women's locker room, and you can choose the one that will meet him halfway.

Walk in front of him and let him admire your silhouette. If the road is crowded, you can pretend to pass by him unintentionally. Don't be conspicuous and smile as you pass by.

7. Touch each other lightly

During the conversation, casually (note: casually, this is the most important word) put your hand on his arm. The best time to do this is after the other person says something extremely smart or funny. You certainly understand what touching means; you are being moved, but be careful not to overdo it.

8. Look the other person in the eye

If you're sitting side by side, don't just let him see your shoulders. Face him when you speak; this will make him feel respected.

9. Get closer

You don't have to breathe on his tie knot, but don't stand more than three feet away from him either. Take a step forward and let him get comfortable with you. Don't back down.

Of course, all of the above are just suggestions. Some of them are particularly effective in specific environments and for specific people, while sometimes they are not applicable. Find the method that works best and is most successful for you, and develop your unique mood. Once your style is formed, don't be conservative or hide it, spread your charm everywhere.