Ten misconceptions about men

Myth 1: To capture a man, you must first capture his stomach

Realistically, only a seasoned bachelor who has long been accustomed to eating fast food and microwaved food would be attracted to a woman's cooking ability. Of course, any man would be very grateful if a woman served him a fine dinner, however, the modern man needs a woman's attention, not the food she cooks. Even if a woman can only make fried eggs, if she serves them to a man in a loving way, the man will enjoy the meal. At this time, a fried egg is much better than a French meal.

Myth 2: Men should take the initiative

In fact, when it comes to love, men are usually more shy, and they need to muster up great courage and determination to be the first to speak. In fact, many men have a "child complex". When they try their best to irritate the girl they like, they actually want to attract the girl's attention. The psychology exhibited by adult men is like that of little boys. Therefore, it is recommended that women be more generous and proactive at these times, but also be aware that excessive initiative will scare away men.

Myth 3: Men don’t understand love, they just want sex

A psychologist once did a survey and found that more than 90 percent of men believe in everlasting love. There are differences in the feelings of love between men and women: women want to enjoy "friendship-like love" and long-lasting love, while men want "passionate love" very much. However, if a love does not develop into physical intimacy, how can there be passion?

Myth 4: Men only like women’s beautiful appearance

Of course, men are attracted to beautiful women. However, in the eyes of men, a woman's beauty ranks third after sexiness and temperament. If a woman wants to win a man's heart, she should act more naturally and directly, instead of just being a vase with a beautiful appearance.

Myth 5: Men like outspoken and straightforward women

This is a misunderstanding. Although men appreciate straightforward women, if a woman often brings up her privacy and talks about it endlessly, it will also scare men away. A woman should be an expert in beating around the bush. You know, mystery often arouses great interest in men.

Myth #6: The worse you treat a man, the better he will treat you.

In fact, the scope of application of this sentence also has a limit. If a woman is too cold to her man, or constantly tests the man's patience with her willfulness, harshness and arrogance, any man will choose to stay away from this woman. Experts believe that such behavior will only appeal to gentlemen with extremely low self-esteem or masochists.

Myth 7: Men are more selfish in bed

In fact, selfish men in this regard are definitely in the minority. Generally speaking, men will indeed complete the entire process of sex before women are satisfied. When men reach the climax of sex, women's feelings are just beginning. This is why many women complain that men are selfish. In fact, this is determined by the physiological and psychological characteristics of men and women, and is not something men do actively. If men pay more attention to foreplay, then this problem will no longer be a problem. So the idea that men are selfish in bed is greatly exaggerated.

Myth 8: Strong, confident men never complain about life and never cry

Doctors often say that constant stress caused by negative emotions is the main culprit for heart disease and stroke. Psychologists also believe that it is very healthy for humans to occasionally show the vulnerable side of their character. Only by constantly struggling against adversity can you become a man with strong willpower.

Myth 9: Real men are always decisive

A man is not a robot, he is only human, and it is perfectly normal if he hesitates or shows doubt in his actions. Women should not accuse men of being indecisive. Let him think, let him compare all the opportunities, and he will make the right choice.

Myth 10: Men are emotionless animals and they are not moved by certain things.

In fact, a man's psychology sometimes goes through a baptism of emotions like a storm. When faced with certain things, men are more psychologically fragile than women. Therefore, a wise woman will always find the key to open a man's heart instead of simply accusing him of being cold and heartless.