1. Injury This is the root cause of girls frequently looking for one-night stands, which comes from the pain in their hearts. The most common thing is that they are abandoned by their boyfriends, and this boyfriend is often their first man, the first man they thought they could entrust their life to. So after breaking up with them, I was greatly hurt psychologically and no longer believed in love. So I began to deliberately indulge myself and used one-night stands to heal the wounds in my heart. Due to the disappointment in love and the hatred for one's own indulgence, this complex emotion will lead to the girl psychologically thinking that she is a bad girl, indulging herself even more and therefore frequently seeking one-night stands. In fact, it is just a way to vent emotions. They use extreme feelings to release the gloom in their hearts. At this time, a one-night stand is just a disguised form of self-abuse for them, like a wounded beast, but it keeps tearing open its wounds and letting the wounds bleed continuously... What I want to tell these girls is: You don’t have to feel pain to feel your own existence. In fact, you can change back. Life is not easy enough, please take care of yourself and your body. 2. Anger A moment of anger can cause a great change in a person. This type of girl is often lively and has a hot temper. Often after a quarrel with her boyfriend, she deliberately uses a one-night stand to calm herself down. In fact, they just want to vent in their hearts, just like children, thinking that their boyfriend doesn’t care about them anyway, so they want to make him angry on purpose. In fact, she just wants someone to care about her, so it is often easy for her to have a one-night stand with a boy who can comfort her to find that loss. But often after a one-night stand, when people calm down, they begin to regret what they have done. Often, many young girls become young women because of a moment of anger... Quote: Men often regret not having had sex with a woman, while women regret having had sex with a man. I hope that these girls can calmly think about it for three minutes before looking for a one-night stand. In fact, you can use more appropriate methods to balance your mood, such as chatting... Three: Lonely Lonely hearts often need comfort. When the night is long and there is no one around, the psychological loneliness is often the reason why many single women have one-night stands. In fact, I don’t have a great need for sex. I just want someone to accompany me and spend the long night with me. One-night stand is a way to fill the yearning for warmth and the fear of loneliness. This type of girls are generally open-minded, advanced-minded... and full of desire for romance. What I want to say is, pay attention to contraception... Four: Desire The pursuit of sexual desire. Food and sex are human nature. As ideas become more open, many women express their desires more directly. They seek one-night stands because of their naked sexual needs. They are often divorced and their husbands are not around for a long time... In fact, women, like men, have physical needs for sex, so they are eager to satisfy their physical needs through one-night stands. In "The Future of an Illusion," Freud asserted that "man is an imbecile creature governed by his instinctual desires." Five: Odd Curiosity about sex Since the Internet is now flooded with a large amount of sexual knowledge, it often tempts young children and makes their budding hearts develop a great curiosity about sex. Coupled with the many enthusiastic perverts on the Internet, these little girls can easily fall into the mouths of perverts and become victims of one-night stands. Because the Internet brings people of different ages together, not wanting to admit their own childishness often becomes a fatal flaw for children. After losing her virginity, perhaps she still doesn’t understand what happened…Because they are at a rebellious age, they always have a fearless mentality to pursue excitement and fun, but it brings them a lot of injuries… What I want to say is, don’t look at what you shouldn’t look at, don’t do what you shouldn’t do, it will be good for you. 6. Others The rest is the rest... There are many other reasons and excuses, I won’t list them all, such as work needs (hehe, everyone knows what profession is), special hobbies, for national unity and so on... |
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