Is a man willing to be henpecked?

A famous American psychoanalyst once went to Japan on a lecture tour. Before returning to the United States, he gave the following speech at the farewell banquet: "I have long heard that Japan is a 'paradise for men' and have always been very envious. However, after careful observation, I found that the men in your country have some childish habits, which makes me feel a little sympathetic.

This means that Japanese men like to say to their wives in an imperative tone in front of guests: "Hey! Bring out the tea!" When their wives are about to go out and they have to stay at home, they will repeatedly remind their wives: "Hey! Have you made lunch?" From a psychoanalytic point of view, such actions mean that the man will not do anything, which is exactly the same as the psychology of a young child relying on his mother.

In the eyes of psychoanalysts, if a person shows signs of being a male chauvinist, he or she will be seen as a child. His wife would also criticize him, saying, "What a rude and feudal man you are! You are really good for nothing." It is precisely because of this that some smart men have recently changed their goals and become henpecked husbands. They confidently said: "Since I became a henpecked husband, I can better maintain the happiness of my family.

Only a petty husband would bully his wife. Truly "valuable" men will not do this. Instead, they will give their wives face. It is said that only weak dogs bark wildly. As long as you have the style of the king of beasts - the lion, even if the dog is barking, you can calmly say to her - "Okay...you can handle everything..."

In this way, not only do you not have to waste your breath, but you can also have some free time. It is said that once you become a henpecked husband, you don't have to worry about household chores, as your wife will naturally arrange them properly.

"You're back! Okay! Change your clothes quickly, I need to do the laundry."

"It's time for dinner! Read the newspaper later! Eat first so I can clean up."

"Stop watching TV! Go to bed! You have to go to work tomorrow!"

All of this feels like living in a student dormitory and being supervised by a dormitory warden. But just like the products on a conveyor belt, everything is controlled by machines. You don’t have to worry about anything and become a complete passive participant. At the same time, these can also moderately satisfy the wife's maternal instinct, which can be said to kill two birds with one stone.

Dear readers, perhaps you still remember the so-called "Prosmer Affair"? A British Army Minister kept a mistress in his house. Unexpectedly, this mistress was the most famous spy. She sent all the Western military secrets she had discovered to communist countries, causing a great commotion. At that time, media from various countries competed to report on the event, causing it to become a hot topic.

After this incident, the British people were very angry, especially the wife of the Secretary of State for War, who was extremely furious. This Minister of War repeatedly displayed his henpecked character in public, which made people never dream that he used his henpecked character as a cover for having an affair. As far as we are concerned, there are many "weak husbands" who have learned this trick. Wives, please pay attention!

Of course, not all men have such a dual psychology. It cannot be said that there are no husbands who truly dote on their wives or who are henpecked. It's just that this type of husband must go through a long normal married life and be "trained" perfectly by his wife. But then again, no matter how he is "raised and trained" by his wife, it is still difficult to change his nature. It often manifests itself suddenly in unexpected situations. This means that it is extremely difficult to remove the "true nature" from deep within your husband's heart.

There was a henpecked man who suddenly lost his beloved wife. He acted as if he was in great pain. Maybe God took pity on him? When his wife's coffin was carried out of the house and hit the doorpost, his wife suddenly came back to life.

However, happiness does not last long. A few years later, the wife left her husband again. However, when the people attending the funeral lifted the coffin, the husband said in panic - "Ah! Everyone, please be careful! Don't let the coffin hit the doorpost again!"