The art of pillows is destined to belong to women

Life is like this, even the most loving couple can have a big argument. In short, there are many times when we go to bed with a lot of anger in our hearts. But as we lay there, the curtain of darkness and the familiar smells around us aroused our guilt, and we thought of his many good qualities, so we took the initiative to stretch out our arms to show our reconciliation. According to women's common sense, nothing can move a man who is angry more than the warmth of a woman's pillow. Using pillow charm on him is a woman's most effective weapon, isn't it? But in reality, this trick doesn't work on all men.

Pillow art that women can use

Answer 1: Yes, if he loves you very much

For men, who are easily bored with the old and easily attracted by the new, as long as the flame of love is still burning, the body of their lover is undoubtedly a delicious delicacy that they cannot refuse.

They are so obsessed with reaching the peak of pleasure with you that this need can surpass his interest in anything else. Even after you have an argument, he will regret not being calm enough, because the cold war between you may delay the next time he has sex with you! Therefore, when you send signals with your body, he will naturally be more than happy to do so. Of course, this is only part of it. If he loves you very much, he doesn't want you to ignore each other. He will also feel sorry for your unhappiness. Reconciling in this way not only conforms to his physiological instincts, but also can mend the rift in each other's hearts. It is undoubtedly the first choice.

Answer 2: Yes, if he just refuses to apologize

Men's ubiquitous self-esteem makes it difficult for them to accept women's excessive words or actions when they are excited, and at this time they will become reckless and angry. Men who have done something wrong will never admit it to the other party easily. They defend their dignity like they are holding their ground. Even if they know that a simple "I'm sorry" can make the woman soften as before, they would rather break their courage than bend, just to maintain their lofty image in the relationship. Now you understand, aren't men just children? As a woman who is more resilient than the other party, making appropriate gestures and using gentle body language to move him is far more effective than a head-on confrontation. It won’t be too late to confront him after the atmosphere has eased (physical satisfaction and pleasure will make their temper and personality become submissive and gentle). It works if he feels aggrieved.

You must understand that just as they are reluctant to admit their mistakes easily, they are also reluctant to expose their grievances easily. This is very different from women's expression habits. Women always think, right is right, wrong is wrong, so why is it so troublesome when it comes to men? You cannot ignore the fact that a man's strength is hypocritical, but he has to maintain it, so he is never willing to expose his incompetence and cowardice.

If they feel aggrieved, it is difficult to open their hearts through verbal communication. Gentle hugs and caresses will move them. Of course, you don't need to despise this disguise. Men need to build absolute self-confidence to cope with relatively greater pressure. This method is tantamount to self-hypnosis.

Answer 3: Yes, if the conflict is not accumulated over time.

If a wound is repeatedly torn, it will become increasingly difficult to heal. On the other hand, if you feel helpless when faced with occasional frictions, this solution may also be beneficial. Remember that this panacea may not work forever, you must find the root of the problem and solve it. If you always rely on folk remedies, the real problem will not be alleviated, and it will recur from time to time, which is a contradiction that accumulates over time.

Summary: It is men’s nature to be lustful, and this is also one of their biggest weaknesses. If we don't make good use of it, wouldn't it be a waste of resources?

Answer 4: No, if he is a veteran

If he has had countless girlfriends and knows women's mentality very well, then conquering him in this way is like hitting a dog with a meat bun - the bun is eaten by it, but it still doesn't leave; or you give him a sugar-coated bullet, he eats the sugar coating, and the bullet is thrown back. In short, this kind of man, unless you are smarter and more experienced than him, no tricks you can use on him will be invulnerable to him.

Answer 5: Ineffective if you ask him to do something he can’t do or is unwilling to do.

Men don't usually use sex as a commodity or exchange, but they are willing to exchange commodities or money for women they deem worthy. If a man is willing to do something important for you, it's best to do it voluntarily. They don't like to do things passively, and they don't like to be forced to do things. Therefore, "forcing others with sex" is not feasible in theory. If you put it into practice, he will feel a little humiliated or cheated, and you'd better find another way.

Answer 6: Ineffective, if he no longer loves you (but out of instinct, he will not refuse to have sex with you)

Maybe he still accepts you and has sex with you, but you no longer feel that passion and tenderness in it. Yes, even if he no longer loves you, he may still have sex with you to obey the wishes of his body or to express gratitude or guilt.

But since love is no longer there, no matter what the conflict is, it doesn’t matter whether it is resolved or not.

Answer 7: Ineffective, if you use this trick every time

Please be a little creative, otherwise he will think you are a sex maniac. Of course, men don’t mind that their significant other has more demands in bed, but if you take this approach every time you encounter a conflict, as mentioned earlier, the actual problem is not resolved, and what’s more serious is that he will mistakenly think that you are very dependent on him in this regard, and thus indulge his behavior even more. Whether you are dependent on him or not, sex must be something beautiful and harmonious, not some kind of equal exchange.