How many women live in a man's heart?

Some people say that men are very fickle and always look at the pot while having their fill. Some people also say that a man only has one true love, and the most important place in his heart is reserved for one person. Therefore, women always like to suspect and even discuss with their girlfriends, who lives in a man's heart? Which corner belongs to them?

How many women live in a man's heart?

Some people say that men are very fickle and always look at the pot while having their fill. Some people also say that a man only has one true love, and the most important place in his heart is reserved for one person. Therefore, women always like to suspect and even discuss with their girlfriends, who lives in a man's heart? Which corner belongs to them?

In a man's heart, there probably lives his dream lover, first love, wife, confidante, mother, etc. Each character is different, and not all of them are in my mind all the time. It’s just that at certain times and in certain situations, one or two people pass through my mind, never giving up.

Dream lover in dream

In May this year, Xiao Chen, a member from a dating website, said that in his mind, there has always been a perfect woman: with long black hair, delicate features, gentle and graceful... But at the age of nearly 30, he has never met such a woman, and therefore, he has been reluctant to talk about love with others.

Xiao Chen also said that although there were women around him who were loyal to him and he had some feelings for them, he was always unwilling to accept their feelings for fear of missing the opportunity to meet the person of his dreams. Therefore, he waited and waited. His parents urged him to get married, his friends were anxious, and he made a lot of people unhappy. He felt at a loss, not knowing whether waiting could bring a happy ending, and he didn't know whether the so-called person in his dream really existed.

In fact, regardless of gender, before meeting their lover, they will inevitably idealize their lover and set rules and regulations for them according to the mold they want. However, as it is said on the Internet, ideals are full and reality is very skinny. If you blindly pursue a lover like your dream lover, the result is more likely to be disappointment or even despair. After all, it is not easy to find a perfect person in the world, so when you meet the right person and feel moved, just love him/her well.

Unforgettable first love

Nalan once said: "If life could always be like our first meeting, why would the autumn wind make the fan sad?" The poem expresses the beauty and indifference of the first meeting. Just as beautiful is first love.

The author once met a man while traveling. He was 32 years old and his current girlfriend was 30 years old. After two years of dating, he is still unwilling to get married. When asked why, he said that he is still thinking about his first love. He is with his current girlfriend only because she is a very good woman and is particularly attentive to him. In real life, there are many confused women who complain that their boyfriends are not attentive enough to them, but know everything about their ex-girlfriends.

First love often occurs when one is just beginning to fall in love. The feelings at that time are pure and beautiful, and most men also put their heart and soul into pampering the women around them. However, once separated, regrets abound and memories are inevitable. That’s why some people say that once you fall in love, you can never fall in love again, and true love only happens once. Because men become more rational after entering society, and focus more of their energy and attention on building their careers. Even if they love, it may be difficult for them to show the care and romantic warmth they had when they were young. At this time, what he needs more may be a woman who loves him, understands him, and tolerates him.

Mutual support and love

Because of marriage, men have responsibilities and obligations.

Home is a man’s harbor and a warm light when he returns from hard work outside. And the woman becomes the person who lives in the man's heart, doing housework for him, giving birth to children for him, and adding the thick color of fireworks to his pretty face... The days of mutual support are as light as water, and the man knows the hard work the woman has done for him, and he is doubly attached to this small home that belongs to them.

The woman living in a man's heart becomes synonymous with home.

For a man, starting a family and establishing a career are major events in life. A woman who can accompany a man hand in hand and share the joys and sorrows with him naturally occupies a considerable position in his heart.

Confidante

"More than a friend, less than a lover" is people's definition of a confidante.

The so-called confidante is a female friend who is spiritually independent, soul equal to men, and with whom he can achieve deep resonance. It is not just an emotional trash can where you can pour out your troubles, or a nest where weary birds long to return after being hurt in the outside world. Therefore, many men want to have a confidante.

A true friend is hard to find, and a female confidant is even harder. Women are already wary of men's confidantes, so it is very important to strike the right balance and not let the "confidante" turn into a "disaster".

Unbreakable maternal love

Just like many women have an Oedipus complex, most men also have a deep Oedipus complex. Many men look for girlfriends with similar personalities and living habits to their mothers. Some young wives always complain: Why does my husband always compare me with my mother-in-law, accusing me of not being as hardworking as my mother-in-law, not being as clean as her, and saying I should learn more from her, etc.

Mother occupies an important position in a man's heart, so he will be angry if someone says anything bad about his mother. In the eyes of men, even if the mother is wrong, it can be forgiven. This kind of feeling can never be given up in a lifetime. Although men may occasionally complain about their mothers' faults, they are limited to their own complaints. This is why men will get angry whenever a woman complains about her mother-in-law.

However, having said that, I think the person who holds the most important place in a man's heart is often not his first love or confidante, let alone his dream lover or mother, but his wife who can always support him, help him and love him. Normal men are like this. How can they not be important to the woman they marry?