Don't be shy! You will definitely like this kind of surprise

Many people who are single have this behavior, but many people also masturbate after getting married. I guess it’s hard for many people to understand. However, masturbation after marriage is still common, and it has brought some unexpected surprises to many people, such as improving men's premature ejaculation.

Preventing premature ejaculation, husband's unexpected surprise after masturbation

Mr. Wang, 40 years old, is a department manager of a foreign company. He got married at the age of 37, and his wife is 10 years younger than him. A few years after marriage, the sex life was not harmonious, with frequent embarrassing premature ejaculation and less and less frequency of sex. Fortunately, his wife is virtuous. She thinks her husband is under a lot of work pressure and has just entered middle age, which is not as good as when he was young. So she often buys some aphrodisiac health products. Mr. Wang understood his wife's good intentions and tried various health supplements honestly, but to no avail.

During the National Day holiday, his wife went back to her parents' home, and Mr. Wang felt too tired and rested alone at home. Since I hadn't had sex with my wife for nearly half a month, I felt some sexual desire after lunch break and started masturbating. At the beginning, the penis erection was not strong, but because I was mentally relaxed and had a good rest, it gradually improved. He masturbated three times in a week and felt great every time, which invisibly increased his confidence in his sexual ability. After his wife came home, Mr. Wang took the initiative to express his love to her, and his wife also actively cooperated. The couple achieved a rare sexual harmony in recent years. His wife joked, "How come your 'kung fu' has improved after being apart for a week?" Mr. Wang was embarrassed to talk about his masturbation, but he vaguely felt something in his heart.

Premature ejaculation is one of the most misunderstood symptoms of the disorder. Strictly speaking, premature ejaculation is only considered when, during most sexual intercourse, the man ejaculates before or just after contact with the woman, making normal sexual intercourse impossible. Therefore, we cannot judge whether the man has premature ejaculation based on whether the woman has an orgasm. This is just a problem of sexual disharmony. Mr. Wang does not have any "premature ejaculation" at all, but his sex life is not harmonious due to work and psychological pressure. The more disharmonious it is, the less one dares to do it, and therefore the less one does it. The male's penis lacks proper stimulation and is more likely to suffer from "impotence" or "premature ejaculation".

Mr. Wang may have the urge to masturbate at ordinary times, but on the one hand, he goes out early and comes back late, so he is physically tired, and on the other hand, it is not convenient with his wife around. The solitude and tranquility of the seven-day rest relieved his physical and mental stress and gave him the opportunity to masturbate to his heart's content. Because the stimulation of the penis by the hand is much greater than that by the vagina, the sensitivity of the glans penis is reduced. In this way, when Mr. Wang had sex that night after his wife came home, the sensitivity of his glans decreased and the accumulated semen was discharged, so the duration of contraction was greatly prolonged and the quality of his sex life was significantly improved.

Ejaculation is a reflex, and if a man can control his ejaculation process, then he can enjoy high levels of sexual arousal in any situation and can freely choose when to ejaculate. He can allow his sexual arousal to reach a very high level, then temporarily drop to a lower level, then rise again, and then drop again, repeating this process until he wants to ejaculate. To achieve this step, it is often difficult to grasp during sexual intercourse. Masturbation is an independent sexual behavior, which makes people more relaxed and has less psychological pressure (we must have a correct understanding of masturbation, and it is another matter if there is abnormal psychological burden after masturbation). It can be said that masturbation is a good way for men to train their ability to control ejaculation.

The so-called "moderation" should include two meanings: masturbation cannot replace sex life. If you indulge in it, it will be counterproductive and even endanger the relationship between husband and wife. You must also grasp the timing, because the ultimate goal of masturbation after marriage is to improve the quality of the couple's sex life, not just to vent sexual desire.