What women care about most in their sex life

As the saying goes, "Know yourself and know your enemy, and you will win every battle." Have you ever thought about whether you can really bring happiness to your sexual partner? It is important to learn correct sexual knowledge regularly, but from another perspective, women talking about their worst sexual experiences can also be a learning experience.

1. Size is the most important

"He is the best man I know, and it's sweet to be with him. Unfortunately, his size is only as small as my little finger. No matter how hard I try, it can only be as big as my thumb. If he were not so small, I would have the best experience. Unfortunately, the world is not so perfect. Sorry, he is really too small."

Comment: The size issue has always been a problem that bothers men. If it is really too small, the only way to remedy it is to use other methods, such as using more sweet words and spending more time in a romantic environment, or putting more effort into foreplay to make up for the inherent deficiencies.

2. Do Not Harass

"My boyfriend and I are both impatient. One time, we thought no one was home, so we started having sex without even closing the door. We also did it from behind. Just when we were getting really into it, my mother suddenly rushed in and screamed. It was so embarrassing. Since then, he has never dared to come to my house again."

Comment: If you want to reduce these embarrassing situations, of course it is best to make sure to choose a suitable place in advance. An environment that is suitable for two people is a must. Otherwise, finding a good couple hotel may also be a good idea. Better safe than sorry!

3. Misuse of female condoms

"That was our first time using female condoms, and it was definitely a bad experience. At first my boyfriend said it was like a small plastic bag, convenient and easy to use, but it was actually very difficult to put it into the body. In short, it felt weird, and it made a weird sound like squeezing a plastic bag. It was really uncomfortable. If men think condoms are bad, women's condoms are several times worse."

Comment: In theory, female condoms and ordinary male condoms have the same function. However, the convenience or feel of use is a matter of personal opinion. Instead, I would like to remind all men here that before using condoms, please first understand the correct method of use. Otherwise, it will not be able to prevent pregnancy and will not feel good, which will be counterproductive.

4. Props add interest

"My boyfriend said sex toys can increase pleasure and make sex more enjoyable. But the toy was so ineffective and he didn't know how to use it. It made me feel very uncomfortable. Not only did I not feel pleasure, but we had a big fight because of it."

Comment: It is often said that love toys can increase the sexual interest of men and women, but the key is to use them properly rather than blindly follow them. It is basic to ask about the correct usage before purchasing and using them. What is more important is to consider whether the woman can really accept it, or to communicate clearly in advance, otherwise it will only backfire.

5. Bigger is not necessarily better

"My first love was a muscular man with the most perfect body shape. His was also really big, so our first contact was never completed. We tried three positions but failed. But the worst thing was his attitude towards sex. He was arrogant and thought, 'My thing is big and I have great sexual ability.' To be honest, a girl's willingness to have sex does not mean she is a slut."

Comment: It is a common man's wish to own a big one, and we only hear men complain about it being too small, never too big. In fact, women are often afraid that men’s penis is too big, so bigger does not necessarily mean better. Even if you have a huge penis, you should never brag about your sexual ability, because this can be what attracts women to men, but it can also be a taboo that can scare women.

6. Accidents can happen at any time

"My most embarrassing experience was when I asked a friend for information on emergency contraception. I had to face the embarrassment of doing it on impulse. Even if I were given another chance, I would have taken safety measures in advance and not have to worry about it afterwards."

Comment: Safe sex is worth promoting. We should know that accidents can happen at any time. It is better to take preventive measures in advance. Even if you are impulsive, it only takes a few seconds to put on a condom. Isn't it that such a short time can't wait? Because in addition to pregnancy, you may also get other infectious diseases. It is better to be safe!