Why Beauty and the Beast choose a mate

Since ancient times, red flowers have been paired with green leaves, and beautiful women have been paired with handsome men. It seems to be natural and there is nothing wrong with it. It seems that putting beautiful things together is a more pleasing thing. But is this a little too perfect? ​​You know, there is no absolute perfection. In recent years, the trend of the fate of beauties has developed into what people call "downhill". There are more and more combinations of beauties and the beast, and a flower is really stuck in "cow dung".

Why do women choose beasts?

The beasts' duty is to support the beauties' self-esteem

A survey was once conducted, and it was found that most beautiful women did not mind whether their partner was a beast. Instead, they said that beasts could sometimes take better care of themselves and allow them to live a life like a princess. This is also a part of a girl's dating skills that cannot be ignored. Instead of looking for a highly anticipated prince charming, it is better to find an ordinary person who treats herself as a princess. Among them was a beautiful lady who told us her romantic story with the beast.

The beauty was crying because of something, and the beast boy wiped away her tears drop by drop with his fingers and accompanied her silently. By doing this, the beast man preserved the beauty of the beautiful woman and made her look even more charming. The beasts carefully protect the beauty's self-esteem, which is probably one of the reasons why she is loved. They don't use cool words to show their greatness like handsome guys, but think about how to make beautiful women happy. This is the charm that can most shake the hearts of beautiful women.

Belief: The reason why beast men are so popular is that they know how to appreciate and praise others. They know very well that they do not have an advantage in appearance, so they try hard to find other ways to attract the attention of beautiful women. Being praised is very useful for beautiful women. They care more about their appearance, and when someone praises them, their self-confidence will soar, so they will naturally favor such people.

The beasts also know that beauties may be immune to superficial compliments, so they will show respect for beauties in terms of character and personality, discover from the inside, slowly enter the inner world of beauties, and gain their favor. It is said that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. As long as you understand the psychology of a beautiful woman, even a beast can be transformed into a beast prince.

In fact, beautiful women pay more attention to their own beauty

Why are there always beauties and beasts in the streets? In fact, to put it bluntly, beauty "likes" the beast. A beautiful woman's focus is all on herself, and the other person's appearance is actually secondary. As long as the other person plays a supporting role and makes you look beautiful, that's enough.

Of course, not all beauties have this kind of little thoughts, but this characteristic is still common in the subconscious, and it is not limited to beautiful women. Just like when a group photo is just taken, the first thing everyone does is to look for their own shadow in the crowd. In fact, in this sense, everyone cares very much about their appearance and the attention they receive, and they are all members of the "Appearance Association" without exception.

Suggestion: Beautiful women only care about their appearance, and they are not completely appearance-oriented. They may be fascinated by a man's appearance for a while, but what they really care about is a man 's ability and responsibility, and the beasts will give the beauties an inexplicable sense of security. So I want to say something to the "beasts": Don't be self-deprecating, you can also get the beauty!

Beauty and the Beast Wild Mode

Talented ugly man and cute beauty

Beauty and the beast? Although the "beast" looks average, he is talented. Take Gao Xiaosong who was recently exposed, for example. His beautiful wife who was born in the 80s is quite attached to him.

Wei Zhizhong said that in a stable relationship, a very important element is whether the woman has admiration for the man she is dating. The same is true in family marriage. If a wife truly admires her husband from the bottom of her heart, the marriage relationship will be much more solid. It is said that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Even a "beast" can become a "beast prince".

Ending: Attracted because of talent, married because of admiration, this kind of combination is often more reliable and the marriage relationship is more dependable.

Suggestion: A talented person will always be surrounded by beautiful women, even if he is a beastly ugly man. We also need to remind the “beast” to exercise self-discipline and be careful of flying pollen.

Strong women and housewives

The type of marriage that most people can accept is one in which the man is superior to the woman in terms of education and ability. If in a relationship, the woman's education, social role, and career are all better than the man's, can this match still be harmonious?

The counselor said that in order to date a woman who has a higher social status than himself, a man must first be mentally strong. In his view, there is no difference in academic qualifications, no difference in social roles, and no element of "no one is climbing above their station". Only in this way can two people love each other. What is love? Passion, psychological attachment and responsibility are the core content of love. Passion naturally refers to the feeling of closeness, while psychological attachment means that after having her, he feels at ease. Responsibility means that he really wants to give to her; as long as the relationship between two people has these three core elements, the relationship between the two sexes will be more solid.

Ending: If reputation, money and other material things are put first from the beginning, the combination of woman A and man D will often not last.

Suggestion: For a pairing of woman A and man D, whether they will be happy in the future depends on their psychological compatibility, especially the man must have a strong inner world.

A handsome man with a fragile heart and a strong dinosaur with a strong heart

Handsome guys match beautiful girls, when will a handsome guy choose a dinosaur girl? Wei Zhizhong said that this has to be discussed from the three levels of love: 1. Appearance; 2. Social status (ability); 3. Psychology. A handsome guy, even if he is penniless, but he is mentally strong enough and believes that he can make this girl happy in the future, then he dares to marry her and does not think that the girl is marrying him down.

If this handsome guy has a certain social status, then he would want to marry a fairy. Then there is only one situation in which the handsome guy will choose the dinosaur girl. Only when he is not mentally strong enough and has no self-confidence, he can only choose the dinosaur girl to comfort himself.

The counselor said that handsome guys with fragile hearts cannot match with beautiful girls. In their eyes, psychological balance is the most important thing, and what he needs in his heart is precious. If the dinosaur girl is considerate and can just meet his inner needs, then it will be balanced.

Ending: They come together because of balance and say goodbye because of imbalance.

Suggestion: During the process of falling in love, appearance, ability, and psychology each account for 30 points; but after marriage, appearance drops to 10 points, and the proportion of ability and psychology increases. If two people cannot strike a balance between these three, problems will arise. It is suggested that dinosaur women should cultivate their virtues and wisdom, turn themselves into talented women, and become good wives and mothers, so that their married life will become happy and stable.

Traumatized little boy and innocent little girl

Most Phoenix Men come from rural areas. Born into poverty, the cruelty and hardship of life have left a deep mark on their hearts: they are inferior but have strong self-esteem, are hard-working, and have a strong motivation for achievement. This makes them more successful in their careers than others.

Although some Phoenix Men can gradually get rid of their inferiority complex as they grow up, they still have problems such as sensitivity, suspicion, and inferiority. The Peacock Girl is a "flower grown in a greenhouse" and does not know much about the sufferings of the world. They are simple-minded and admire and yearn for pure love.

"When the Phoenix Man meets the Peacock Girl, this is the story of a traumatized little boy and an innocent little girl." Wei Zhizhong said that when these two people met, the Phoenix Man's rough life experience would greatly attract the Peacock Girl, and because of curiosity and appreciation, the two could quickly enter the stage of love. It's easy to fall in love, but hard to live together. Because the Peacock Woman is too naive and the Phoenix Man has a more complicated inner world, over time, the Peacock Woman cannot stand the Phoenix Man who is confident on the outside but inferior on the inside, and conflicts arise.

Ending: Due to completely different family backgrounds and upbringings, the relationship between these two people often has two possible outcomes: First, life is colorful and every day is new; second, it is dazzling and full of contradictions.

Suggestion: The peacock woman should not only see the Phoenix man's bright appearance, but also enter his inferiority complex inner world. It is best to visit his hometown to truly understand the growth environment of the Phoenix man. The so-called understanding → comprehension → acceptance → control (grasp). Only by understanding the other person's life background can you understand the root cause of his words and deeds, and thus have the possibility of accepting the Phoenix Man.

Editor's conclusion: From an aesthetic point of view, beautiful women and handsome men are indeed pleasing to the eye, but beautiful women should not be too demanding, so as not to become leftover women. While appreciating handsome men, beautiful women should also observe the "beasts" around them. Although they may not have a handsome appearance, perhaps their responsibility is what you need. Don't be fooled by appearance, open your eyes, and you will find someone who is truly waiting for you with love.