Revealing the top 10 most common sexual lies women tell in bed

If two people are already naked, at zero distance or even negative distance, will they still lie? The answer is yes. A small-scale survey shows that almost everyone has lied in bed. Some do so because they don’t want to cause trouble, some because they don’t have “sexual interest” for the time being, and some to please the other person… Let’s take a look at the most common sexual lies women tell in bed.

Women’s Sexual Lie 1: I’m High!

Every woman has experienced faking an orgasm, right? You start screaming and shouting before he even touches you. When he reaches the sprint stage, you should cooperate with him, encourage him to go faster and faster, and make him perform as if he is in ecstasy. Of course, this is as it should be. Pretending to reach a climax is a compliment and affirmation to him, or at least a form of cooperation, just like an actor performing hard on stage, even if the performance is not good, he still has to be given some applause. And the wonderful thing about orgasms is that when you fake an orgasm, you may actually have one.

Advice for men: However, dear, we still have to say that a man who truly loves you and is familiar with you, how could it be possible that he could never tell whether you are really having an orgasm or just faking it? If you are always faking an orgasm, why don't you talk about it together, how can you make yourself happier.

Women's Sexual Lie 2: Faster, faster!

You don't actually feel anything yet, but he has already reached the sprint stage, so you start to cooperate with him, moving wildly, yelling, asking him to go faster and faster, acting like you're in ecstasy. Of course, this is as it should be. Your performance will quickly make him high to the extreme.

Advice for men: Chances are, you’ll get high in the process, too. If you feel that you are still not satisfied, you should consider other auxiliary methods. Next time before having sex, it is best to extend the foreplay time appropriately.

Women’s Sexual Lie 3: You are the best!

You may be lying, but it is necessary. When a man asks you who is better, him or your ex, this is the most correct answer. First of all, I despise the man who asks this kind of question. He is so boring. At the same time, I also want to tell you that men are strong on the outside but fragile on the inside. If you say that others are better than him, he will feel hurt, which will leave a psychological shadow, and he may even be unable to do anything from then on, which will seriously affect his physical and mental health - you don't want him to have ED from then on, right?

Advice for men: If possible, it is best not to let him know about your past. Of course, if you treat this question as foreplay or to add interest, there is nothing wrong with that.

Women's Sexual Lie 4: Go to bed early!

You are full of anticipation for this night. You took a shower, changed into sexy pajamas, and wandered around in front of him, but he was completely unaware and was still immersed in the world of online games. You can only say to him, "Aren't you tired yet? Go to bed early."

Advice for men: If you need to induce him like this every time, and he often does not respond to such inducement, or even says that you are annoying, then you need to seriously consider whether there is a problem with your relationship or with his body.

Women's Sexual Lie 5: Masturbation is shameful

When he is physically tired or on a long business trip, does desire creep silently in his body like a worm? Sexual desire comes suddenly, but the person next to him is not there. Should I use masturbation to solve the problem? Your subconscious voice tells you that masturbation is sinful, so stop it and take a cold shower.

Advice for men: Everyone has the right to masturbate, masturbation is a physiological need. When he can't satisfy you or there is no male companion around, masturbation is the best way. You can also get to know yourself again by exploring your own movements.

Women’s Sexual Lie 6: If you want it, do it quickly

When your "period" is about to come, do you feel a surge of sexual desire? But at this time he feels nothing, so you say to him: "I'm about to have my period, do you want it? If you do, hurry up!" This will hurt a man's self-esteem. Because he feels like you are giving him alms and he is being insulted. A man’s sexual psychology is “being needed”. When he knows that you need him and he will make you feel happy, he will become more confident and more powerful.

Advice for men: Why not change the way you talk? Say that you want it too and express your love for him? If you really can't say it, then just don't say anything and seduce him directly.

Women’s Sexual Lie No. 7: Stomach Ache

Men don't have periods, but women do. Therefore, when a woman does not want to have sex, she can use stomach pain (premenstrual pain) as an excuse. Even if your period has just ended, you can find various excuses, such as, your waist is sprained, you have to get up early tomorrow, or you haven't washed your clothes yet. In any case, these reasons are always much better than just saying "I don't want to".

Advice for men: When you have to reject him, give him comfort and don’t let him feel hurt. As mentioned earlier in "Don't you want to? I don't want to either", it would be better to agree on a date with him.

Women's Sexual Lie No. 8: Have a glass of red wine!

When he is getting impatient, you say, "Why don't we have a drink of red wine first?" Well, you know that you are tired of the monotonous sex. Or maybe your body isn't ready yet and needs some time to warm up. But don't do this when he's already impatient, as he'll feel disappointed and think you're a nuisance.

Tips for men: You can give him a hint early in the day, during dinner or even in the morning when you're getting ready to go out, to get him looking forward to the night. Instead of realizing that the lack of foreplay makes the conversation boring when you are honest with each other. Of course, you can also find a suitable opportunity to communicate with him about how to make sex better.

Women’s Sexual Lie No. 9: It’s OK

The most undesirable thing happened. He had tried hard for a long time, but failed in the end. If you can still say "it's okay" at this time, you deserve praise. Even though you express your understanding to him, it will still hurt him. You might as well try other methods, such as letting him use his hands, mouth, or other auxiliary products.

Advice for men: Both you and him should know that even if there is no actual sex, you can still get high using other methods. That way he wouldn't have as much pressure and guilt. Moreover, during this process, he might suddenly feel something and become very aroused.

Women's Sexual Lie 10: Mature Men Are More Attractive

He started to gain weight in middle age. You said you liked his big belly, which was soft and comfortable, and you pretended not to notice his receding hairline, but said that mature men are more attractive. I have to admit that this is indeed a warm and beautiful lie.