Do you know how to use sex toys? A comprehensive review of sex toys

Do you know how to use sex toys? A comprehensive inventory of sex toys. When buying a box of condoms at a convenience store, people have to be secretive and shy; but now they can talk about vibrators, vibrators, and inflatable dolls openly in public. With the impact of sexual culture in Japan and Western countries, "sex toys" have become popular in both the living room and the bedroom among both the opposite sex and the same sex. But, after all, will they be used? How much do you really know about the "effects" of sex toys?

1There are two types of sex toys

The survey found that using sex toys does not always satisfy both parties. Many couples, when they first use these tools, not only waste their passion but also sometimes cause physical harm, affecting the pleasure of sex because they don't understand how to use them or the effects of their use.

Sex toys can be summed up into two categories:

One category is the "actual combat" category.

Necessities with quick effects (suitable for those who are conservative but want to seek excitement), including massage sticks, external massagers, male masturbators, sperm-locking rings, eye rings, lubricants, functional condoms, vaginal gel... "practical-grade" sex condiments. These products can directly increase interest and stimulation, and may have become a necessity for some people who desperately need to "wake up their sexual spirit."

The other type is the visual school.

Suitable for those with "heavy tastes", S (Sadism), M (Masochism), SM supplies, as the name suggests, are props used in sexual sadism situations. This type of props includes leather underwear, imitation whips, handcuffs, low-temperature candles, nipple rings, etc. They are visual SM props that are realistic in appearance but not very powerful.

2Sex toys are not just for fun

Lily, a returnee, is a "curiosity" enthusiast. Since middle school, she has been accustomed to seeing foreign parents stuffing condoms into their children's schoolbags. After getting married, Lily fell even more in love with playing "games" with her husband. They collected almost all kinds of sex toys at home, and the couple's love was the envy of others. Unlike Lily, 35-year-old Fangfang is often troubled by her sexual frigidity and inability to satisfy her husband. One night, Fangfang quietly placed a highly lifelike inflatable doll she bought online on the bedside, preparing to give her husband a surprise. Unexpectedly, her husband was greatly surprised and repeatedly scolded Fangfang for thinking he was too "vulgar and perverted." In the end, Fangfang's enthusiasm ended in frustrating failure.

In fact, sex toys are more than just fun. Due to differences in social consciousness and cultural background, in China, where ideology and economy are in the period of reform and opening up, sex toys are called sexual therapy tools, which obviously highlights their auxiliary role in restoring sexual function; while in Western countries they are generally called sex toys, which mainly emphasizes their sexual entertainment aspect. The difference in names fully reflects the characteristics of sexual instruments.

There are three main functions of sex toys:

1. Treatment improves sexual function;

2. Increase the interest in sex life;

3. Meet sexual needs in special circumstances. In reproductive science, people who fear sexually transmitted diseases, those who do not want to get married unconditionally, those who go out for a long time or live alone, those with strong sexual desire, those who cannot enjoy their sexual life to the fullest, those with male impotence and female sexual frigidity, and those who are unable to have sex due to illness or disability of one spouse, can all use the stimulation of sexual instruments to reach orgasm and obtain sexual satisfaction.

We should give a correct evaluation to the role of sex toys. If used correctly, it can achieve the effects of self-entertainment, masturbation and self-healing. "Experts point out that when people are unable to complete sexual intercourse normally due to psychological or physiological problems, they should not avoid this need with a negative and inaction attitude, but should use body parts other than genitals, drugs or sex toys to help complete sexual activities.

3. Couples can have some "excitement" occasionally

While most people are still confused about sex toys, a few have already personally experienced the intense stimulation that sex toys bring. But at the same time, related questions will also surface: users are considered to have sexual dysfunction; they are addictive and cannot achieve orgasm without them; they will cause damage to the body...

Nowadays, many people buy sex toys because they want to try new and exciting things and explore their own and their partners' sexual potential in alternative sexual interests. Most of this has nothing to do with disease. Everyone has a sexual fetish that gets a special form of stimulation, which has nothing to do with disease. As for whether it harms the body, as long as it is not abused, it is okay to have some stimulation occasionally. Especially for middle-aged and elderly people, don’t be shy, adding a little bit of interest will make life more exciting.

Sex toys can make it easy for users to reach orgasm, and if one time is not enough, they can be stimulated repeatedly until they are satisfied. For a couple to reach orgasm during sexual intercourse requires not only skills and methods from both parties, but also physical strength and patience. Sex toys can easily bring different degrees of pleasure and even orgasm, and indeed solve the sexual repression, sexual troubles and sexual anxiety of some people. But it is only an auxiliary tool after all. It cannot completely replace a sexual partner, let alone the caress and tenderness between husband and wife. It is really wrong to rely too much on tools, indulge in strong physical stimulation, and gradually develop aversion to normal married life.