4 steps to a perfect married life

Introduction: Marital sex is an art. Only when the couple communicates in time and works together can it be perfected. Sex should be exciting, and sometimes small changes can bring some excitement to your encounters. The following are several aesthetic issues that are often overlooked by Chinese people in sex, which are of great significance in regulating the dual physiological and psychological effects of both men and women.

The prerequisite for a good mood: cleanliness and hygiene

The cleanliness of the body and sexual organs is not only of hygienic significance, but also of very important aesthetic significance. Unclean contact by either spouse can cause unpleasant reactions in both parties and become a strong inhibitory factor that hinders the success of their sexual life. In particular, the odor emitted from the unclean foreskin of the man will not only cause a sense of disgust in the woman's heart, which will invisibly weaken the mood during sex, but also easily cause various gynecological diseases. Therefore, couples should develop a good habit of rinsing their mouths, brushing their teeth and cleaning their lower body before each sexual intercourse.

The source of interest: clothing and demeanor

Clothing and demeanor have a considerable influence on the harmony of a couple's sexual life. As a woman, you should know how to shape your sexy beauty through appropriate love, eyes, makeup, clothing, body shape and other details of life, but some women, especially middle-aged women, often ignore this point.

Therefore, the feminine beauty of a wife reflected in her clothing and demeanor actually opens the floodgates to her husband's sexual love. Similarly, the neatness of a husband's clothes is also a concern for his wife. Therefore, husbands should learn to dress themselves carefully and show their elegant masculine temperament in order to win the love of their wives. Otherwise, if you don't pay attention to your clothing and demeanor for a long time, you will gradually lose your charm in the other person's eyes, which will not only reduce the quality of your married life, but may also shake the foundation of your stable marriage.

Passion arousal: sexual initiative

Influenced by traditional ideas, they believe that sexual life between husband and wife is necessary only to maintain marriage and reproduce, so they regard it as an obligation. They never take the initiative in sexual life or seek the highest level of sexual pleasure. Little do people know that women's erogenous zones are much wider than men's. During ovulation and a few days before and after menstruation, women's estrogen levels increase and their sexual desire is stronger. Here, women tend to be sexually active. After abortion, sexual desire increases due to the feedback of hormones in the body, and the individual may also be sexually active. When meeting again after a long separation, women are in a state of sexual hunger, so in order to make up for the lack of sex, they may take the initiative in sex.

However, in the actual life of couples, wives are often affected by various psychological factors, especially their shy personality. They often dare not show sexual initiative, thinking that it is shameful for them to be sexually active, thus suppressing the inherent passion and beauty of women in sexual initiative. In fact, this is a misunderstanding.

Sexologists have found that the vast majority of husbands desire their wives to take the initiative sexually. A wife's sexual initiative can give her husband psychological satisfaction, and make him realize the exclusivity of his wife's sexual love, thus deepening his love for her. As a husband, you should be good at observing and grasping the sexual signals your wife sends through her words and actions. For example, if you find your wife dressing up before going to bed, or hinting at her with words, or consciously showing intimacy to her husband, the husband should respond and cater to her in time. Only when men and women adapt to this synchronization with each other can they achieve the harmonious beauty of their sexual life.

The basis of sex: love

Psychological and aesthetic preparation is also one of them. Sexologists point out that psychological sexual desire and physiological sexual impulse are often generated in an intimate and warm atmosphere between husband and wife. Only in the lingering affection can love be sublimated and purified. If the aesthetic issues in sexual psychological preparation are ignored, it will be difficult to stimulate a comfortable mood for sex. Both men and women use love to shape the world, and love is the foundation of sex. Without love, sex is just a castle in the air. Similarly, without harmonious sex, love is just empty talk. Therefore, care and concern in life, spiritual comfort and consideration, and emotional loyalty are the best necessary conditions for achieving sexual harmony.

In short, learning more about aesthetic knowledge in couples' sexual life and applying it flexibly in their sexual life can not only create loving family affection and a sweet marriage, but also make the couple's sexual life enter a beautiful realm, promote the sexual cultivation between couples, improve the originally unsatisfactory sex life, make the originally harmonious sex life more wonderful, and make it a real enjoyment both physically and psychologically.