Women learn 9 ways to love to prevent men from cheating

1. Have more intimate physical contact

When shopping, hold his arm intimately, instead of you rushing in front while he follows behind with bags; when watching a movie, gently lean your head on his shoulder, instead of eating popcorn non-stop; when stuck in traffic, pat his stiff thighs from stepping on the brakes, instead of complaining non-stop while sitting in the passenger seat; when walking past him at home, kiss his cheek, instead of just minding your own business as if no one is around...

Don’t think that these are behaviors only of young women who have just fallen in love. These are things that all men hope their lovers can do, even if you are already an “old married couple”.

Psychological experts say that these intimate little actions express a woman's dependence and concern for a man, can stimulate a man's desire to protect a woman, and will make a man feel that the two of them have more and more tacit understanding.

The latest psychological research in the United States also found that the more frequent the intimate physical contact between men and women, the more stable the relationship between them. Of course, I also want to remind you not to be too intimate and never stick to him regardless of the occasion.

2. Leave his phone alone

Stop reading the text messages on his phone while he's taking a shower. He also needs some private space of his own. The most important thing is that after being educated by so many movies and TV dramas, no man is stupid enough to leave evidence of his philandering on his phone anymore.

Moreover, psychological experts say that this suspicious mentality and the guilt after secretly looking at the phone will stimulate the secretion of cortisol in women's bodies, seriously affecting their mood and beauty.

3. Share interesting things with him

He is not your emotional trash can who just listens to you complain about your job and boss all the time.

If he is given a choice, he would rather listen to you talk about all the interesting things that happened to him today, even if it is an interesting repost he saw on Weibo. You would never imagine that the happy message you bring to him will make him more devoted to you than your oral sex skills.

The latest gender survey in the UK also confirmed that women with humorous and cheerful personalities are becoming more and more popular among men, and the number of men in the "Happiness Association" is even tending to surpass that of the "Appearance Association".

4. Praise him with words

You're not the only one who likes to hear him compliment you on how cute you are. Even men want affirmation from others, especially from their lovers, and the vitality you inject into him with words will ultimately benefit you, because the happier he feels, the more he'll want to bring you greater happiness.

So next time he takes the initiative to cook porridge for you, buys you your favorite style of leather shoes, or grabs the best seat in the movie, praise him well.

5. Prepare some small surprises

Forget Valentine’s Day, prepare little surprises for him from time to time.

Of course, we are not asking you to suddenly tattoo his name on your body, or get breast augmentation or nose surgery to please him, or secretly record a sex tape... The surprise here does not have to be unforgettable for him, but to make him feel that you really love him and care about him.

For example, leave him a breakfast on the table, buy him a pair of more suitable glasses, leave him a private message on Weibo when you are out at work to tell him that you miss him, etc.

6. Allow him to have his own friends

You have your best friends, and he has his own buddies. He may not like some of your friends, and you don’t have to give up your own friends just to attend those “boring” parties between him and his buddies. Everyone needs time to spend with their friends.

Gender psychology experts say that both men and women will have friends they like but their lovers don’t, and this is uncontrollable. As a woman, you must learn to be independent and have your own social circle, while at the same time learning to be a partner to your lover. You must find a balance between the two.

7. Give him a massage considerately

He really hopes that when he gets home from get off work, you can considerately give him a back pat or massage, even if it's only for a few minutes, all the fatigue of the whole day will disappear.

"Don't you have a massage chair at home? My massage is not professional, why don't we go out for a foot massage?" You may have the above thoughts, but think about yourself, when you come home after a day of wearing high heels, your feet are sore and painful, if he gently massages your feet, even if the technique is not professional at all, will you feel happy and cared for?

In fact, men are the same and also need to feel cared for. So, don't be stingy about spending that little bit of time to massage him, and don't worry about whether your techniques are professional enough. Of course, if you are willing to spend a little more time to make yourself more professional, I believe he will love you more.

Even better, gender experts say that mutual massage between lovers is the best way to enhance intimacy and sexual sensitivity, right?

8. Give him some alone time

There must be times when he comes home from get off work and doesn't want to say anything. Don't think that he has encountered some serious difficulties and needs your timely guidance. Don't guess that he is having an affair. He is really just too tired and doesn't want to talk and wants to be alone for a while.

So, at this time, don't force him to talk to you, don't keep asking him what he is thinking, don't force him to eat more, don't drag him to watch TV with you or even have sex with you. He is really so tired that he doesn't even have the energy or interest to say another word. At this time, what he wants you to do most is to change the TV to his favorite channel, make a cup of his favorite hot tea, and then leave space for him to be alone. After being alone, he will love you more.

What do you do when he is alone? Of course, you don't leave him alone at home and go to a nightclub to have fun. You can play games on your iPad, watch TV series, draw, play the piano... In short, there are so many things you can do, whatever you like.

9. Don’t say things that you don’t mean when you’re arguing.

Are you like many women who blurt out a lot of angry words insincerely when you quarrel with him, such as the common "Let's break up", "Go find your ex-girlfriend", "Go whoever is better", etc.

Although the latest research says that frequent quarrels are more beneficial to maintaining the relationship between lovers, you should quarrel rationally and understand that the purpose of quarreling is definitely not to break up, but to resolve conflicts, solve problems, and make you closer.

Therefore, when you are arguing, you must always remind yourself that just because something bad happened to you, it does not mean that your relationship is bad.