The man secretly did this and he was immediately unable to do it

Fear of sexually transmitted diseases is also one of the reasons that induce impotence in unfaithful men. The chief physician of the Department of Sexual Medicine of the Third Affiliated Hospital of Sun Yat-sen University said that such patients are often encountered in the hospital. Since the two parties in the "affair" do not know each other's health conditions, some men suspect that they will contract sexually transmitted diseases after the "affair", and this worry will gradually turn into a fear. When this fear reaches a serious level, it can cause people to reject sexual life and lead to impotence.

In addition, some men feel very guilty after "cheating" because in their subconscious they still hope to be a good man with a sense of family responsibility. Extramarital affairs make such men unable to accept themselves. The guilt mentality interferes with the brain nerves for a long time, making these men feel exhausted. At this time, psychological impotence will occur. At the same time, the fear of getting the woman pregnant due to extramarital sex is also a mental burden, which makes people afraid to fully express themselves during orgasm, and over time it can easily lead to impotence.

In addition, some men who are prone to ED (erectile dysfunction) have difficulty in getting an erection when they encounter "cheating". But after returning home, he may suddenly become devastated and eventually suffer from impotence.

Director Zhang Bin said that nowadays, there are indeed many patients with impotence, and "cheating" is often "adding fuel to the fire", so every man should correct his lifestyle and establish a sense of responsibility towards his family. The chances of finding happiness through extramarital affairs are very low both psychologically and physically.

Song Chongsheng, deputy chief physician at Beijing Huilongguan Hospital Psychiatric Research Center, believes that these four types of men are prone to cheating:

Flirting - If some men can easily "get what they want" from women in their past emotional experiences, then the joy after success will motivate them to conquer the next target. The targets of their pursuit are often the same type of people. This type of man is more fickle and naturally prone to cheating.

Lack of love - some men will settle down, get married and start a family after experiencing all the beauty in the world. But some of them will cheat later, and some of these cheating are relatively passive. Because he does not get the love and care from his wife at home, no gentle consideration, no tenderness and love, only quarrels, nagging, nitpicking and accusations, then the man will naturally want to escape, and it is inevitable that he will fall into the arms of another woman.

Lack of self-confidence - Some men lack self-confidence and always need the admiration of women to affirm themselves. After all, wives are familiar relatives and sometimes ignore this psychological need of men. Therefore, men need to gain confidence and admiration from other women. Generally, mistresses have these characteristics: they are obedient to men, gentle and worshipful, and look up to and depend on them. This type of man often cheats mentally first and then physically.

Compensation psychology - If a woman has relatively rich emotional experience or betrayal experience, the man may cheat out of revenge to balance his hurt heart. The psychological significance of cheating at this time is more like a form of self-treatment. Some men cheat because it is a backlash after being repressed. Suppression may come from control by a partner, dissatisfaction with a partner, or financial difficulties. Once the repression is lifted, these men seek compensation. Therefore, some wealthy men will abandon their wives and have affairs after becoming successful.

Of course, most men are just "flirtatious", which is also a different kind of recognition of the existence of women. From being unfaithful to cheating is a qualitative change. There are relatively few such men, so women don't need to panic.

In today's world of feasting and revelry, more and more men are cheating on their partners, and many of them don't take it seriously. Although this is everyone's private matter, it is morally wrong. And from a health point of view, men who often cheat are more likely to suffer from impotence. Therefore, for the sake of their dignity and health, men should not cheat.