The more times a man experiences "pain", the healthier he is.

For a long time, a broken heart has been considered the greatest emotional injury to people. Regardless of men or women, it will make people feel miserable. In real life, there are many men who develop psychological problems due to a broken heart and choose extreme methods to solve their pain. However, a recent research project from a British university may overturn this consensus. They believe that for men, the more times they experience heartbreak, the healthier their mentality will be.

Men's mental health is directly proportional to the number of breakups

Researchers from the "Impact of Breakups on Men's and Women's Mental Health" project team at Queen Mary University of London found in a survey that, when only considering the impact of gender relations on mental health, women are more likely to have psychological problems such as anxiety than men in cohabitation relationships. The reason may be that women are more likely to feel insecure about money and property, while men are more concerned about whether they will be tied down for life.

It is normal to feel low and depressed after a breakup, but women take much longer to recover from emotional hurt than men, and women's mental health will continue to deteriorate as the number of breakups increases. The situation is just the opposite for men. Men who have experienced two or more breakups have excellent mental state, even healthier than other men.

Couples with stable relationships have healthy mental health

Although the results show that breakups have very different effects on the mental health of men and women, the standard for when the mental health of both partners is at its best is consistent with traditional knowledge, that is, "people in stable relationships or happy families tend to have the best mental health; on the contrary, painful breakups are the main culprit for mental ill-health, especially for women."

Psychological experts say that for most people, suffering the mental blow of a broken heart is not a pleasant thing and has a negative impact on mental health. Therefore, when you or your family has someone who has suffered a broken heart, you should make timely adjustments to avoid the occurrence of psychological problems such as depression.

Heartbreak may be inevitable in love, and maybe you have experienced heartbreak, but please don't dwell on it, because heartbreak is a good thing from a health perspective. A broken heart is good for your health, so men who have been heartbroken should get out of the psychological shadow so that they can be healthier.