Don't challenge a man's lower body easily

Reading tip: Every game has its own rules. An affair is a physical game. If men and women want to avoid trouble, they must abide by the rules of the extramarital affair game. The lower body belongs to the lower body and has nothing to do with love.

I've fallen in love with him now, and I even want to divorce him

He is my boss and I am his secretary. But he and I didn't have a physical relationship, we just felt that we could get along well and talk about almost anything. I could feel that he already treated me as a close friend. Although we had some intimate actions, even taking a shower together and being naked in front of each other, we never crossed the last emotional bottom line.

He once proposed to have sex with me, but I rejected him every time. He said that I have strong self-control. This ambiguous relationship lasted for 2 years. I was gradually conquered by his character and his style of doing things. I knew I had fallen in love with him.

For two years, I have taken meticulous care of him, washing his clothes, including his underwear. Usually, when he is too busy with work to eat, I would go out and buy him food and deliver it to his office. He is very nice to me too. Every time he goes on a business trip, he always calls me first and tells me where he is going in time.

I really enjoy his care and love for me. I really cherish the relationship with him and don't want it to deteriorate. We both said privately that no matter what the future holds, we must not affect each other's families or interfere with each other's lives.

In fact, our mutual restraint was very painful and really torturous. To be honest, I have fallen in love with him now and even want to divorce for him. Even though I knew he couldn't give me marriage, and I thought about leaving, I just couldn't let go. He seemed to be very attached to me and told me privately many times that if he continued like this, he might fall in love with me. But he also told me that the women around him could not force him to divorce, and that he owed his wife a favor and would never divorce her even if he died.

Can a man really have two women in his heart at the same time?

Are his feelings for me real? What position do I hold in his heart? Am I his right-hand man at work, or someone he can rely on when he feels empty?

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I have always believed that when a woman falls in love with a man, she will often throw herself into the fight without hesitation, like a moth flying into a flame. However, a man will not be moved by the moth's infatuation. He would rather appreciate the remaining smoke after the moth falls into the flames and turns into ashes. This is the misfortune of women. For the sake of love, they often lose their minds. Even if they fall into the emotional circles and snares of men, they are unwilling to face it soberly and then save themselves.

Women are crazy about love, and men are heartless about sex. It has always been like this. Unfortunately, women always have to wait until they shed tears before they realize that the fire of desire ignited by men does not give warmth to the moth, but buries it in the sea of ​​fire and turns it into ashes.

I seemed to see a moth seeking death with a tender look. You think you have found a bright outlet for an ambiguous relationship, but little do you know that it is just a warm illusion, beneath the illusion is a fatal temptation emitted by desire.

What you say about not affecting the marriage and family of both parties, upholding the moral bottom line between men and women, and not exceeding the desires of the lower body is nothing but a wishful excuse and a lie to deceive yourself. In time, or when desires are met with a suitable scenario, the moral bottom line you uphold will be vulnerable.

I don't think that the fact that you can look at each other naked without being tempted proves how pure your hearts are. In my opinion, you are just hypocritically challenging the endurance of your lower body. Whoever strikes first will be eliminated first. I believe you and your boss are well aware of this truth.

Every game has its own rules. An affair is a physical game. If men and women want to avoid trouble, they must abide by the rules of the extramarital affair game. The lower body belongs to the lower body and has nothing to do with love. Don't use the name of love to hide the impulses and desires of your lower body. That's hypocritical and dangerous.

No love outside marriage, only sex

Countless facts have proved that playing the game of extramarital affairs in the name of love will eventually backfire and end in the end of the relationship. The so-called man you mentioned will call you, report his whereabouts and express his love no matter where he is on a business trip. This is just a trick and means used by a scoundrel to coax women, thereby covering the naked physical desires with a veil of tenderness, and then doing what men love to do in the name of love.

Interestingly, women are often deeply moved by men’s “careful care” and think that they are really the most beloved women in the man’s mind. I dare say that on the scale of marriage and family, no man would regard a woman outside of marriage as more important than his current wife. Unfortunately, women always have to pay a heavy price to understand this simple rule of marriage.

Finally, I want to remind you: Don’t challenge a man’s lower body easily. He is not Liu Xiahui, and you are not Du Shiniang. Who is more loyal than who? Nowadays, no one can withstand the test and scrutiny under the bed. So, if you want to have an extramarital affair with a married man in the name of love, it is better not to go to bed with him.

The day you go to bed is the day your affair ends.