What kind of woman will a man never change his mind about?

Why do men easily change their minds? Why do extramarital affairs or third parties occur? Women all curse "Chen Shimei". Little did they know that scolding him "Chen Shimei" would not win his heart back...

You should know that it is human nature to get tired of the old and love the new. It is precisely because of the love of new things and the dislike of old things that we have new movies, new culture, new products, new machines, new countries, new systems, new history, new world... and the wheel of the times will roll forward. Since it is human nature to get tired of the old and love the new, and society is developing rapidly, how can a woman avoid being eliminated by the times and how can she keep her husband from changing his mind?

Article 1: We must improve our quality and cultural accomplishment and keep up with the pace of the times.

Thus keeping up with your husband or boyfriend. In modern society, men's values ​​and family concepts have changed a lot. A silly, obedient girl who knows nothing about the world cannot hold the heart of a strong man. From ancient times to the present, I have never heard of any famous, dignified and virtuous lady who could be the exclusive favorite of a man. However, Baosi, Cixi, Daji, Wu Meiniang, Li Shishi, Su Xiaoxiao, Sai Jinhua and others who made men crazy were all smart, witty, proficient in music, chess, calligraphy and painting, and talented.

Many opinion polls have found that men prefer and need partners who are smart, trendy and intelligent. In modern society, taking care of children, cooking and doing laundry are no longer a wife's job. These have long been replaced by nannies, kindergartens, high-end hotels and restaurants.

Article 2: Be fully confident.

Men like confident women. Confidence can turn a mediocre face into a brilliant one. Cultivate and protect your own charm. Charm does not come from the face, and I am against having any surgery on my face. I don't think I will ever get plastic surgery. Natural and real are the most beautiful. We just need to find ways to protect ourselves carefully. Slowing down aging is possible. My sister called me from France and told me that she wanted to have plastic surgery. I immediately told her in no uncertain terms: "If you have plastic surgery, I will no longer like you. I like you the way you are now. The face is not important at all."

Rule 3: Don’t love so much that you lose yourself.

This type of woman is most likely to be abandoned by men. They pay the most and lose the most. If you give everything you have to the other person as a gift, the other person will think it was too easy and will put it aside without any mercy. I have many male friends who are divorced or have bad relationships and have third parties, and their wives are not at fault. I asked them why. They said they didn't know. After thinking for a long time, they answered me: Maybe it wasn't me who chased him!

Article 4: Give the other person a certain amount of freedom and enough space.

It is very important for couples to maintain a certain distance. If you suffocate a man, he will hate you. Keep the other person fresh about you. If he hangs out with you all the time, one day he'll get bored. Let him do his own thing, and it's enough to be with you outside of eight hours or in the evening.

Article 5: Remember that marriage is an obligation, not a right.

Never hurt a man's self-esteem, always give him face! Many women treat men as their own private property after marriage. They often give men the cold shoulder, slamming tables and benches, or just being angry and not talking, walking away in front of others, etc. In serious cases, there are frequent quarrels, and they discipline their husbands in public without any feminine gentleness, and look domineering. All the politeness and gentleness that were shown when they first started dating are gone, revealing their true colors.

You have to know that a man marries you, not sells him to you. Why should you make him angry? Everyone wants to save face, and men especially want to save face. If you don't give him face in public once, you can't make up for it even if you are willing to cook for him for a year. Even if you go back home and reason with him, it will be much better than quarreling in front of others. However, it is best not to quarrel, especially not over trivial matters. Some things should be stopped at the right time and you should not be unreasonable.

Article 6: Adapt to the other person, don’t try to change him or her.

Remember not to nag. Don't be a nagging woman. Remember that no one is perfect. You yourself are not perfect either. By seeking common ground while reserving differences, you can change the nagging female disease that all men hate.

Article 7: Everyone can survive without each other, so don’t hang yourself on a tree.

You and your husband had never met each other before, but became husband and wife by chance. The so-called "made in heaven" is just an adjective. No couple in the world is made in heaven. If they are compatible, stay together; if they are not, separate. It’s no big deal; the meal can still be complete even without carrots. The sky will not fall and the world will not end. Don't pin your hopes on others. Don't put the reins of your destiny in the hands of others. Take control of your own destiny. In this way, you won't be at a loss when changes happen. Pessimistic and world-weary. A mess.

Article 8: If you try your best but still lose him, then just don’t have him.

There are such men (including women, of course) in the world who are born fickle and play with the opposite sex to satisfy their selfish desires. Such people do not deserve to have a family at all. If you are unlucky enough to meet such a person, then you are very unlucky. When you think you are unlucky, you should give up all your fantasies about him, leave him and start looking for a new life. Don't foolishly wait for him to change his mind and waste your best years on him. In this world you have to take care of yourself first. If you don’t take care of yourself, then I have to tell you, no one will take care of you. Don't be too concerned about the age difference. You don't have to find a man who is stronger than you. It's better for two people to be together and have a mutual understanding than anything else!