The mind and the body have no gender distinction.

If you think that men only care about the physical aspect of women, or that women only have spiritual pursuits, this is an untrue portrayal of the relationship between men and women, because women's feelings are not just about needing spiritual comfort to end all expectations, and men's feelings are not all completed with the physical pleasure of sex. The spiritual richness of women and the physical greed of men may be the two poles of the relationship between men and women. But they are not two parallel lines that will never intersect. For men, the reality of gender relations is a true reflection of human emotions, and it is not, as people say, completed simply because of men's real physical needs.

A man's full emotions, or a woman's mere need for spiritual comfort, will prevent a woman from having any other thoughts.

A newly married woman will no longer be careful to create all the emotions that belong to the man just because the sexual relationship between her husband and her before marriage has ended, thinking that the woman has already had sexual relations with her husband. This idea is actually a misunderstanding. Moreover, when a woman cannot make too many demands on sex, the man seems to feel that he does not really feel the whole mystery of sex.

Why is the relationship between men and women who have been married for many years so dull? Is it because of sex or not because of sex. To form a relationship of staying together forever seems to be a natural thing for women, but to men, it seems that this kind of sexual impulse is superficial, and the affectionate feelings of women are focused on their anticipation for men's sexual intercourse. In fact, the spirit of a woman and the body of a man are by no means incompatible. When making love, a woman can also truly experience all the emotions, because when it comes to love between men and women, it is not a mysterious and complicated thing.

"On the surface, men's sexual desire seems to focus on the physical aspect. In fact, it is not. Generally speaking, mental factors are more dominant. Men's sexual curiosity and expectations often make them more eager for sex, and this mental excitement can cause erection, which is indispensable for sexual behavior. Without this connotation, sex will seem dull to men."

Often, changes beyond friendship between opposite sexes occur when a man or a woman casually talks to one another. Moreover, this kind of confession is now considered dangerous. If a woman thinks she has found someone who can truly listen to her, she thinks she has found a reason for the emotional balance to begin to tilt. However, if the woman's confession and her feelings towards her husband are still based on moral or family ethics and she does not want to cross the line, then she will not have an affair. If a woman thinks that this feeling is for the purpose of getting real spiritual comfort, then it is normal for men to think that as a married woman, you have had sexual relations with another man, even if it was done in a hurry. Because as a man, perhaps his consideration now finally has a chance, so men will make sure to get the physical expression of women while carrying out their sexual efforts, and this way of expression is sex.

But the feeling of loss after sex still exists, which is the spiritual emptiness caused by physical desire.

And when a woman really wants to cheat on her husband, in fact, she no longer cares about her so-called status or even the age difference. This is probably due to the following situations: it is more common for a woman to have a similar situation with her husband's best friend, because the purpose of the husband entrusting his best friend with an important task is to persuade his wife, and the wife feels the understanding of her husband's friend in this God-given opportunity, and the husband's friend even forgets the ancient saying that a friend's wife should not be deceived, so this kind of ending of letting a wolf into the house will occur; and some men will argue about a woman's chastity after robbing her of her virginity, which is probably a specific reason why white-collar workers in companies cannot truly own their own personal lives. Because the other party is the boss and the president, who has absolute power over his own destiny and salary, the woman did not feel relaxed and comfortable after giving her body. In addition, there are those women who regard their bodies as the prerequisite. They really often misunderstand men's feelings about women's bodies, thinking that as long as a woman's body is available to men, men must give their lives to themselves.

Therefore, when men are judged to want a woman's body or men are judged to be lustful and greedy, women seem to have to draw conclusions for men and endure it. So, this understanding is still one-sided, because women's feelings about physical desire do not just stay on the platform of emotional exchange. Women also look forward to physical caress and wait for the moment in bed that makes them intoxicated. Because the male body also feels fresh to women, and the degree of freshness also includes the woman's feeling towards the male body. This is because women are not just enjoyers of spiritual transcendence, they also need real sex that makes them feel ecstasy in order to truly suppress their deep desire for sex.

Women will really curse those men who don't have the physical strength to achieve sexual satisfaction. This is because these weak men cannot truly perform manly acts, cannot truly use their genitals to penetrate women, and when they cannot stimulate women, women's desires or sexual dreams will be alienated. They may even have sexual intercourse with little boys who have seldom been with them, or even have one-night stands with men who do not match their identities. This is because the most direct release of sexual problems, the spirit, cannot have an outlet, and it is also a somewhat embarrassing privacy for women to use masturbation to solve their hunger.

Moreover, what women want after marriage is not simple romance, which is the essence of marriage without sexual content. When sex no longer has the effect of making a woman infatuated, no matter how many sweet words are said, they will become boring.

Men will get a kind of compensation from sexual affairs in addition to marital sex, while women hope to have a truly good night with the man they like. What really makes a woman feel the love of an extramarital affair is not the sweet talk and sex. Even if the man she meets is not a real master in bed, she will let her sexual indulgence pass in the excitement of the affair because of the temporary novelty. However, a woman who has forced sex will feel that it is not worth it, because since she cannot truly indulge herself, she has been labeled as a slutty woman, and she cannot get a real orgasm, so she will regret it even more. So how do women understand women? In Junichi Watanabe's book, we see his somewhat disrespectful statement about women: "Women generally gradually understand and mature in the process of having relationships with specific men. And women are not like men who get tired of maintaining sexual relationships with the same person. On the contrary, their own sexual feelings will become richer and more sensitive in skin-to-skin contact, and they will become more and more inseparable from each other. There are considerable differences between men and women in the process of generating sexual feelings."

Men pursue the freshness of women's body, while women rely on or absorb the spiritual feelings they get from men to enrich their body and mind. A man's empathy arises from the tension or excitement of sex that is not intoxicating; while a woman's empathy arises because after the man gets the woman's body, the woman becomes incoherent and thinks she has the only listener in her spiritual world.