The dangers of premarital sex

Since the 21st century, my country's science and technology has developed rapidly, and the Internet age has driven the nation forward. The bad disadvantage of this is that many young people engage in sexual activity too early. Because families, schools and society do not repeatedly emphasize the significance of sexual behavior, many high school students and even junior high school students begin to engage in sexual activity. Premature sexual activity has certain harms. Let’s take a look at the consequences of this behavior below.

What are the dangers of early sexual activity in women?

1. Premature sexual activity can cause damage and infection to the genital tract.

Because the reproductive tract of adolescent girls is not yet mature, the vulva and vagina are very delicate, and the vagina is short and the surface tissue is weak. Sexual intercourse may cause severe tearing of the hymen and vaginal lacerations, resulting in heavy bleeding. At the same time, some pathogenic microorganisms or dirt may be introduced into the vagina to varying degrees. The female's own defense function is relatively poor at this stage, which can easily cause infection of the urethra, vulva and vagina. If not controlled in time, the infection will spread.

2. Premature sexual activity may bring adverse consequences due to pregnancy.

Since women's ovaries begin to ovulate after their menstruation, if they do not take effective contraceptive measures during sexual intercourse, pregnancy is very likely to occur. Once pregnant, an abortion is necessary. Artificial abortion is not only harmful to women's health, but can also cause a series of complications such as infection, bleeding, uterine perforation, habitual miscarriage and infertility after marriage. In addition, due to the pressure of public opinion, self-blame and guilt, women suffer serious psychological trauma, which may even affect their normal sex life after marriage.

3. Premature sexual activity can seriously affect mental health.

This is because young girls' sexual behavior is often carried out secretly and under a very tense state, and they lack the necessary preparation (mainly referring to the study of sexual knowledge and mental preparation). At the same time, during and after sexual intercourse, people may feel fear, guilt, and regret for fear of pregnancy and exposure. Over time, this may lead to psychological abnormalities such as aversion to men, aversion to sex, loss of libido, decreased sexual sensitivity, and sexual indifference.

4. Premature sexual life can affect study and work.

Adolescence is the golden age for girls to study, work and accumulate knowledge to lay the foundation for a brilliant future. If they have sex, it will inevitably affect their energy for study and work, which is not good for themselves, their families and society. Therefore, sexual life should be avoided during adolescence. Adolescent women should cherish their youth and bodies, and devote their attention and interest to study and work. This is of great significance to their healthy growth, career achievements and happy life.

How to prepare for your first sexual intercourse?

1. Change your underwear. After taking a shower or washing, change into clean underwear.

2. Brush your teeth and rinse your mouth. It is very important to brush your teeth and rinse your mouth before sexual intercourse. When a couple sleeps in the same bed, their heads are leaning against each other, their faces are facing each other when they whisper, and their mouths are facing each other when they are intimate and kissing. If your mouth is full of bad smell, it will make the other person feel sick and disgusted, thus reducing their sexual desire. Therefore, after taking a bath and washing your face on the wedding night, be sure to brush your teeth and rinse your mouth.

3. Place toilet paper or a clean towel under the woman's buttocks and vaginal opening. During the first sexual intercourse, the hymen will be damaged and blood will flow out. During sexual intercourse, the semen and secretions in the vagina may also be brought out when the penis twitches. In order not to dirty the sheets and mattresses, before sexual intercourse, you should use toilet paper or clean towels, cloth, etc. to fold them into a thick small mat and place it under the female buttocks and vaginal opening. When sexual intercourse is terminated, the mat is folded and removed.

4. Prepare toilet paper and clean towels. It is used to wipe each other's genitals after sexual intercourse. Cleaning after sexual intercourse is more important. If both men and women do not feel tired after sexual intercourse, it is best to wash their genitals with warm water immediately. The vagina has the function of self-cleaning. Therefore, after sexual intercourse, do not rinse the vagina with water, and do not wipe the vagina with toilet paper or towel, so as not to damage the vaginal lining and destroy its defense function.

5. Take a bath. You should take a shower before sexual intercourse to wash off the sweat and eliminate the sweat odor on your body, so as to avoid the sweat odor making the other person feel disgusted and disgusted when you are in bed. When taking a hot bath, pay special attention to cleaning the external genital organs, removing dirt on the penis, especially the dirt on the coronal sulcus of the glans, the smegma of excessive foreskin, and the dirt in the folds of the labia majora and minora, so as to avoid bringing these dirt into the vagina during sexual intercourse. Taking a bath with warm water can also accelerate blood circulation and produce benign stimulation to the reproductive organs, which is good for sex life.

If you don't have the conditions to take a warm bath, you should also use a basin of warm water to clean the external genitalia. If possible, both men and women can spray a little perfume on parts of their body such as the chest, forehead, and armpits. The smell of perfume gives people a pleasant feeling and can also stimulate sexual desire. But when spraying perfume, be sure not to spray it on the genitals to avoid causing inflammation of the genitals.