How many sperm does a man have in his lifetime? I believe that the world's experts have never done actual measurement! After men reach puberty, the pituitary gland will begin to secrete hormones to stimulate the development and maturation of spermatogenic cells, and the testicles will begin to produce sperm without interruption. Although the "output" will decrease with age, sperm is indeed produced continuously and will not reach the point of "exhaustion of energy and death". As for the saying "one drop of semen equals ten drops of blood", it is actually the traditional Chinese medicine that regards "qi, blood, and semen" as the source of human vitality. The loss of semen is the loss of qi and blood. In fact, whether it is masturbation or ejaculation during sex, it is a way to relieve sexual pressure and is also a natural regulation mechanism of the human body. If you do not ejaculate, once too much is stored and exceeds the load, it will naturally be discharged (nocturnal emission), which will definitely not affect the male's sexual ability in the future, and it will not hurt the kidneys! Conversely, husbands who have sex less frequently are said to be unable to serve (or deal with) their wives and are considered to be less manly. In fact, this excessive emphasis on the number and frequency of sexual intercourse has led to a misunderstanding of sex. In fact, most wives do not think so. Compared with emotional communication and sex life, according to an expert survey of 1,279 couples in 31 large and medium-sized cities (the following figures are all based on this survey), 78% of wives attach more importance to the former rather than the latter. When it comes to the frequency of sexual intercourse and the quality of sexual intercourse (how many orgasms a wife can get from it), 85% of wives prefer high quality rather than large quantity.It is not the case that more sexual activity is better for men. Around the age of 30 to 35, more than half of husbands experience that their sexual needs have actually changed quietly, from needing large quantities to seeking high quality and hoping to obtain deeper emotional communication and experience. For this reason, if a man believes that the frequency of sexual life is the main criterion for marital harmony, or even the only criterion, he is likely to make two behavioral mistakes. First, he may ignore or deny his wife's emotional needs, simplify sex life and turn it into a series of actions, which may seriously hurt his wife's personality and emotions. Second, he may invisibly increase his psychological burden. Once he gets older or encounters special circumstances and cannot maintain the high frequency he believes in, he will suspect that he has impotence or premature ejaculation, and will be afraid of letting his wife down. He may even doubt or become disappointed in his entire personality and life goals. As a result, the stronger you are, the less you can withstand unexpected events. In fact, the frequency of a man's sexual life is basically determined by his physiological condition and age, which is similar among all ethnic groups in the world. In addition, almost every man will have some periods of less sexual intercourse and some periods of more sexual intercourse in his life. There is no question of "how many times it should be". A man's sexual charm mainly lies in his mature personality, his understanding and broad mind, and his deep and persistent emotions. If men do not pay attention to the cultivation of these aspects, but only care about or brag about the frequency of sex, it will be difficult for them to get out of the misunderstanding of sexual life. |
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