The six types of men who are most afraid of their wives

Is your husband afraid of you? See which of the following types of men your husband is.

First, men who are talkative, careful, and nagging

As the saying goes: Too much talk leads to failure, and the same is true in marriage. If a man talks too much, it will annoy women. As far as I know, there are few women in the world who like men who talk too much. On the other hand, men themselves may make mistakes and give their wives some handles because they talk too much. In such a situation, it will be very easy for the wife to become strong and the husband to become weak.

In addition, from the perspective of the psychological needs of these men themselves, they will always subconsciously regard the silence between the two of them as awkward, and will always try to break the "deadlock" by taking the initiative to speak and making small talk. In fact, they are wrong. Many times, silence can make a man's inner world richer, his image more stable, and his marriage healthier.

Second, men who have no special skills and no stable source of income

To be frank, if a man does not have a skill or a stable source of income. Mostly it is like a fish without water. Both their family and living conditions are extremely worrying. Society is so cruel and realistic. According to Chinese tradition, men should have a career, be financially capable, and be as tough as nails.

This concept is deeply rooted. As a man, you should never expect your wife to be tolerant of you in this regard for any reason. If this continues for a long time, you may not even be able to respect yourself!

Third, men who cannot take care of themselves and grew up being spoiled by their family

Decades of family planning in China and the traditional idea of ​​favoring boys over girls have created many boys who are unable to take care of themselves and have grown up in the pampering of their families. Now, they have all grown up, are husbands and fathers, and live their own family lives. At this time, her wife and children will not look at them like parents, nor will they give in to her in everything like her sister does. In this family, he is the pillar, and he has to support it even if he can't.

Then the problem arises: few women can tolerate a man who is unable to take care of himself for a long time. Such a situation will inevitably lead to the continued expansion of the situation where women are strong and men are weak, and it will become an unconscious rule without anyone taking the initiative. The soil for the survival of male chauvinism has become less and less. Things are different now. The situation where men just sit back and wait for food and clothes to be provided for them will only make the marriage more shaky. Then the reason is very simple. If you ask others to help you with every little thing, then you should give in to them and respect them a little, right?

Fourth, a man who has no principles and a very good personality

This is not an exaggeration. It is very sad for a man to have no principles. This sadness will run through his family, career, and entire life. So, as a man, you can have a good personality, but you must not be without principles and you must not be without your own bottom line. This principle includes his wife and children. On this scale that concerns fate, a man cannot give in at all. If he gives in, it would be atonement and would be even more irresponsible to his family.

Women are actually very smart animals, at least smarter than men, and can read people's expressions better than men. If a man gives in to a woman without principles in everything, then the woman will definitely go crazy. She will lose her composure, become overbearing, and become hypocritical. In the end, she will not only not recognize you, but also not recognize herself. Therefore, it is a virtue for a man to give in to his wife, but he cannot give in in everything. It would be very scary if he does not have a sense of masculinity when facing major issues.

Fifth, a man who has a certain level of knowledge and tolerance

In fact, this type of man is different from the previous four types. A man who is knowledgeable, cultured and tolerant may often appear to be afraid of his wife in front of outsiders. However, this fear is not real fear, but a kind of love, a kind of wisdom. He understands his wife better than anyone else, and can control his woman at the most critical moment better than anyone else. He and his wife are not on the same level or stage. He is like a father watching his daughter being naughty and mischievous.

Sixth, a man with filial piety and sense of responsibility

There was once a filial son who said this to The Sky Is Always Blue: Everyone says that I am a filial son, but in fact, a son’s filial piety is not as good as a daughter-in-law’s. A truly smart filial son will never go against his wife. He will use many methods and love to mobilize his wife to be filial with him. Only in this way can filial piety be truly realized and can filial piety be uncompromised!

In fact, the perception of this "filial son" is very representative. The reason why he is "afraid" of his wife is because he hopes that his wife can accept and understand his filial piety, and hopes that by listening to his wife, he can make his wife accept his filial piety to his parents in a balanced way. There is a psychological and emotional exchange here, and it is also a reflection of a man's wisdom and sense of responsibility.