5 Things Your Ex Teaches You

What did you learn from your ex? If the problem in the breakup was yours, then the trouble is not over yet. You need to know why she chose to leave you and avoid the same problem from happening again. Here are 5 reasons why she might leave you:

1. Learn to kiss first

Unlike men, women are always used to enjoying the whole process. In intimate situations, you tend to rush into things and be overly aggressive. If this behavior happens occasionally, it may give her a sense of novelty, but if it continues for a long time, she will lose the pleasure of being intimate with you. This disharmony can have a fatal impact on your relationship.

So the first thing you need to learn is kissing. Kissing is not only an important part of warming up, but also can convey your love to her. Don't let her use the "you never really kissed me" excuse to make you an ex. After dinner, in a romantic scene, in a bar, in the bathroom, you can kiss without hesitation at the right time, in the right place and in the right atmosphere.

2. She thinks you are still a child

Generally speaking, she wants men among men, especially those women who are highly educated and have relatively good incomes. She may not care particularly about whether you have a good income or a handsome appearance. What she cares about is your masculine charm and mature performance. Some of your childish behaviors will make her choose to end this relationship with you: still relying on your parents to do daily chores at the age of 30, going crazy when encountering troubles and trivial things, being obsessed with games in your spare time, etc.

3. You can’t stand her criticism

A woman's natural picky habit begins to magnify after she falls in love. When she is in a bad mood, especially on special days, she is particularly prone to explode and keeps nagging in your ears. Maybe she just wanted to express her inner depression or show her presence. At this time, you must not confront her head-on, which will make a simple problem extremely complicated. You can gently offer some friendly suggestions or directly comfort her with actions, such as holding her hand or stroking her back to let her feel your tenderness.

4. You choose to support your family

Age and different attitudes towards life cause unpleasantness between your girlfriend and your family, especially your mother. For some people, this is an extremely difficult conflict to deal with and it will often break out. You must be extremely cautious when handling this problem. Improper handling will not only damage your relationship, but also affect the relationship between you and your family. Therefore, don't rush to express your attitude. It is best to choose a conciliatory approach, use time to cool down the situation, and comfort both sides at the same time. If conflicts occur frequently, isolate the conflict by having her see your family less often.

5. You stick to your habits

Everyone has her own living habits. Some of her habits are difficult for you to adapt to. Similarly, some of your habits are difficult for her to adapt to. Don't try to completely change a person. We should seek common ground between the two parties and not be stubborn. We can try to influence each other to find a balance.