7 ways women take the initiative to ask for sex

Introduction: In the life of a couple, women should try to take the initiative and learn how to "seduce" him. Here are the seven most effective methods selected by sex experts.

People often believe that sex should be initiated by men, who should tease the other party and control the progress. But recently, the Popular Health Network published an article saying that in the life of a couple, women should try to take the initiative and learn how to "seduce" him. Here are seven of the most effective methods, as ranked by sex experts. Not only do they add fun to your sex life, but they also relieve a man's sexual stress and make him more energetic in bed.

1. Scratch a man's back with your fingernails

Gently scratching the skin with your nails can effectively stimulate a man's sexual response. During sex, you may want to hug the man with your arms and lightly stroke his back, buttocks or thighs with your fingernails. You can stroke up and down and back and forth, but don't use too much force to avoid scratching the skin. This trick can make a man feel numb to the bone, and then sexual passion will come naturally.

2. You will be more sexy without makeup after bathing

Sexy lingerie can indeed give men a double surprise, but Lainie Speizer, author of "Hot Game" and a sex expert, said that another sexy visual surprise for men is to come out without makeup after taking a bath. When taking a shower, you can leave the bathroom door slightly open so that your partner can take a look at you while you shower, which can help stimulate his or her sexual arousal.

3. Verbal cues help flirt

Relationship expert Steve Sant'Agati said that adding "couple cues" to couples' daily conversations can help attract men's attention and arouse their desire. For example, you can use the excuse that your neck is stiff and ask him to massage your back; or you can use the excuse that the word-crossing game is too difficult and ask him to complete it with you. These are tried and tested foreplay tips.

4. Flirt with words but not with physical contact

While he's lying on the couch, you can gaze into his eyes, have a heart-to-heart talk with him, learn in detail what he wants to do with you or say what you want to do with him, Sant'Agati says. At this time, it is best not to rush. You might as well listen to some music, drink a glass of wine, and try to control yourself from touching the other person to see who can resist the temptation of sex better. This kind of foreplay that involves words but no hands can greatly improve the quality of sex.

5. Add romance to hypothetical scenes

Sexologist Lainie Spaitzer suggests pretending to be a secretary for a job interview the next time you're on a dinner date with your significant other. This seemingly funny performance will make men feel fresh and romantic, helping to enhance their sexual response. Another way is to deliberately bump into him when you come back from the bathroom, but pretend that you two are strangers and it is just a romantic encounter.

6. "Shirt handcuffs" new feeling

Next time you have sex, try straddling him and slowly taking off his shirt. When you reach his wrists, stop pulling, instantly turning the shirt into handcuffs. The more confident you are in performing the action, the more excited he will be. You are in complete control of the initiative, and he is at a loss but full of curiosity.

7. "Champagne Kiss" Passionate

The Popular Health Network recommends pouring two glasses of cool champagne and sipping it leisurely. Then, straddle him, take a swig of champagne, and lean forward for a champagne kiss. Letting some of the champagne flow slowly into his mouth will take the kiss to a whole new level of sexiness.