Men's sexual language women should understand

Men and women have the same sexual desires, but use different sexual languages. If women can understand men's sexual language, they will have mastered the secret to a sexually happy marriage. Women should understand men's sexual language.

1 Men vent their emotions through sex

Men usually don't shed tears easily. They often use sex to vent emotions such as fear, pain, and pessimism. When they are in pain, sex is the only way for them to feel comforted and safe.

But the wife may complain that she is just a tool for her husband to vent his emotions, because although her husband is physically relaxed, his mental and psychological tension is not relieved, and the wife will definitely not get more caress from her husband.

So when you find your husband approaching you when he is feeling down, try to convince him that he can tell you everything. Telling him you want to hug him and then asking him what makes him so anxious will help you feel closer and make for a more enjoyable sex life.

2. Men don’t like being treated like children

If you always treat your husband as a child, he will treat you as a "mother". When you organize his clothes and repeatedly remind him what he should do, he is unlikely to do anything romantic for you, and all you may get is gratitude like a son. Women often only focus on the needs of others and ignore their own needs. At first, men like to be taken care of, but the closer a woman is to the role of a mother, the more difficult it is for her husband to treat her sexually.

When your husband asks you where his keys are, force yourself to answer "I don't know" and let him find them himself. Don't pack his things, don't give him suggestions on what to wear, treat him as a capable person and show that you fully trust him. Maybe at the beginning, there will be some chaos in your life, but soon he will understand everything you do and have a new understanding of you.