How many of you know about men's psychology?

In real life, men often don’t like women to interfere or interfere in work matters. If you insist on intervening, it will not be a pleasant thing for all men. Men like to hang out with friends of the same sex, and they also don't like women to intervene because they know that "love is troublesome". So the wise choice for women is to let him go crazy and not bother to intervene.

Where is your psychological "weak point"?

A man’s face is more important than anything else. Men almost always have to "hold on" to get by, so they are mentally exhausted. Men don't shed tears easily, they just swallow their tears. This is the tragedy of men, they dare not admit their cowardice, fear of pain, and all kinds of so-called "feminine psychological needs." In fact, men and women are originally a mixture. Later, people formatted and absolutized men and women, as if men mean masculine, not crying, pragmatic, carefree, and unkempt...

In fact, this is not the case. Men also have many unknown "feminine psychological needs", but these are secrets that are only done but not said, and women are not allowed to open them to find out. If there is a space where you can release yourself freely and open your dusty heart, let's take a look at the fatal weakness of men, that is, the "seven inches" of men:

Vanity

It is difficult to put more money in your pocket, but it is much easier to make yourself look like a rich person. A man's financial situation is a personal secret. It is better for women to ask less questions, because in their minds, a man's wallet determines his charm and ability. This is very subtle and the answer should not be easily revealed. Correspondingly, men will never admit that they are vain, but the reality is that they have a set of "vanity rankings":

First, he only drinks 3 taels but claims he can drink 3 jins of alcohol, bragging without blinking an eye;

Second, open your laptop and work on it on the street to show that you are busy with work;

Third, boasting that you can play, such as golf and tennis;

Fourth, buy a luxury car and spend all your money. No matter how big the mansion is, you can't take it out, but you can show your car to people at any time...

weak

Men also have a weak side, but this cannot be made public. Before a fight, he pretended to roll up his sleeves, but in fact he was hiding his inner weakness and anxiety, but he said in a very tough tone: "Who is afraid of who?"

Conceited

Someone has done a test. They put a big mirror at the corner of a shopping mall (where there are few people) to see who among the men and women passing by would prefer to stay and tidy up in front of the mirror. The results were shocking: male peacocks were more concerned with beauty, and almost every man would "secretly" comb his hair when passing by the mirror. But in public, men generally would never admit that they love dressing up. This is also a "secret" of men.

childish

There are many childish men in Jin Yong's works, but he is a man of insight. But female stars only like to marry mature men. Because they are steady and reliable, the light of rationality can be used not only to illuminate, but also to keep warm. However, men actually have the need to be naughty and naive in their hearts, and sometimes they will express it unconsciously. It seems like they are being shameless, but in fact they are just being coquettish. However, it is not suitable to be developed on a large scale, and finally it will be precipitated into a "secret".

Company Status

Did the company make a profit or a loss? Was the bonus less or more? Is the boss good to me? Men generally don't like the women at home to ask about these kinds of questions. The reason why men want to keep some facts secret is because they don't want to bring what happened during the day into the night. Therefore, men don't like women to interfere in work matters. Ruling the country from behind the scenes was not a pleasant thing for any male emperor.

Who to socialize with

There is a "meeting bar" that does a booming business because it is the best place for men. Once the wife calls and asks, "Where are you?" a man who is drinking can answer with confidence, "In a 'meeting'!" Men like to hang out with friends of the same sex and don't like women to get involved because they know that "love is troublesome", so the wise choice for women is to let him go crazy and not bother to intervene.

Dream of getting rich

Playing stocks, doing some "business" with friends and even taking risks... He longs to become a millionaire overnight, with ambitions as high as the sky, but he has to do it behind his wife's back, hoping that one day he can give the woman he loves a big surprise. Therefore, all this must be kept secret during the dream and she must not know it. In short, men’s secrets are mostly “forced” by the outside world, and while for women, it is a bit of beauty, for men, it is some kind of twisted pain.