Why do Chinese men like to attack their sister-in-law?

According to the strange theory about Chinese men's psychology, the sister-in-law can be considered half a "wife". In fact, when you hear a man say such words, you will definitely be angry but you can't find any words to describe their lust. As the saying goes, even rabbits don't eat grass near their burrows, so why are men always obsessed with sex? Today, the editor will analyze the psychology of men after having an affair from the perspective of psychology. Let’s take a look together!

Men's Psychology

1. My sister-in-law is young and beautiful

Generally speaking, in everyone’s concept, younger sisters are prettier than older sisters. In most fairy tales, younger sisters are both beautiful and kind, while older sisters are much inferior to younger sisters. In addition, "getting tired of the old and loving the new" is a common problem among all men (in fact, it is not a disease, but a very normal human psychology), and people have the curiosity to constantly explore "new areas", so it has become common for men to fall in love with young and beautiful "sisters-in-law".

2. My sister-in-law is simple and easy to deceive

When Li Yu seduced Ehuang's sister Nüying, Nüying was only fifteen years old. When a woman is in her teens, she will always have all kinds of fantasies about men, and "brothers-in-law" who are not much older than her will become the dream lovers of these girls.

3. The sister-in-law has no blood relationship

In daily life, most men are still rational. If there is a sexual relationship between relatives, wouldn't it be very unpleasant? Men also have to save face, so how can they easily take risks? However, it is different with the sister-in-law. They have no blood relationship, and even if they are caught, people will only scold the man for being too lustful.

4. The risk of seducing your sister-in-law is relatively low

When a man becomes aesthetically fatigued with his wife, although he has the desire to go out and have an affair with other women, most men do not have the courage to try it - because most Chinese men are extremely smart and cunning, and they will take into account the consequences of their actions: if they go to "explore" and "develop" other women's "new territories", they will take great risks. Not only will they spend a lot of money, but they will also spend a considerable amount of energy. If they are not careful, they will end up "losing the rice instead of the chicken" and "losing both the wife and the army" - the expanded "new territory" is lost, and their own "backyard" is on fire again.

But if you fall in love with your sister-in-law, the risks will be much reduced. From a certain perspective, having an affair with the sister-in-law can also reduce consumption costs; in addition, the wife will still have more trust in the relationship between herself and her sister-in-law. Even if she sometimes sees the two of them being intimate, she will only think that they want to get to know each other better.

Moreover, this kind of "extramarital affair" mixed with family affection is not easy to be detected - you can attack if you advance; secondly, sisters generally have a good relationship. In case the attempt to seduce the sister-in-law fails, she will generally tolerate or forgive her brother-in-law's extraordinary behavior from the perspective of protecting her sister's feelings, so as not to embarrass her brother-in-law too much - you can defend; thirdly, from the wife's psychological perspective, most wives will adopt a tolerant approach to such "embarrassing things". "Don't air your dirty laundry in public" and "take a step back and the sky will be clear". Both of them are their closest people, and it will hurt in their hearts if either side is hit.

5. An inertia of Chinese culture accumulated over thousands of years

Since ancient times, China has had the tradition of "more children, more blessings", so it is normal to have seven or eight sisters in a family, which makes the probability of a Chinese man becoming a brother-in-law quite high. In addition, China's thousands of years of tradition has very strict restrictions on interactions between strangers of both sexes - "Men and women should not touch each other." In this closed social environment, Chinese men have few options for having affairs except seducing their sisters-in-law.

On the contrary, in ancient times, "sisters-in-law" were generally kept in the boudoir, unknown to the world, and "never went out of the front door or the back door". When she began to be curious and fantasize about men, and wanted to have an affair and have sex, her brother-in-law was undoubtedly the most suitable choice. In this "excellent soil" where the time, place and people are in harmony, can "Chinese brothers-in-law" not make some moves on their "sisters-in-law"?

6. The "sister-in-law complex" has gradually faded

Times are changing, humanity is progressing, and society is developing. Many Chinese men today no longer know what a "sister-in-law" is, especially the "Chinese brothers-in-law" born after 1980 - because this generation are almost all only children, the husband is the only son and the wife is the only daughter, which saves these men from having too much contact with "aunts and cousins" in their wives' families. The "sister-in-law complex" has gradually faded, and perhaps one day it will die, unless China's "one-child policy" is relaxed and the phenomenon of having many children and grandchildren and four generations living under one roof reappears!

Moreover, as people's concepts open up and change, "sisters" will no longer be as tolerant as ancient women, and "mothers-in-law" will no longer "turn a blind eye", and the risk of "brothers-in-law" seducing "sisters-in-law" will only increase.

At the same time, with the opening of interactions between men and women, "sisters-in-law" no longer only see "brothers-in-law" when they open their eyes. Of course, more and more other opposite sexes are constantly pouring into the circle of "brothers-in-law", and the choice space for both is constantly expanding. At this time, the "brothers-in-law" and "sisters-in-law" have become relatives in the true sense. At most, it is a greeting like a brother taking care of his sister, and people generally don't think too much about it.

Therefore, even if men today have such ideas, they are just thinking about it. After all, social morality and humanistic qualities are always constraining men to adhere to the moral bottom line. Let the past become history!