Romance history or temper: 10 things men look for when choosing a wife

Many girls don’t know that boys are also very realistic when looking for a partner. Boys don’t pay much attention to girls’ appearance and figure, but there are some things that they don’t say out loud but they take very seriously in their hearts.

1. The girl’s past

Men, like women, also like to investigate each other's past. Men are not afraid of you having had multiple love experiences, but they are afraid that you have slept with multiple men. They are even more afraid that you have had multiple abortions for other men. Such a woman is no longer pure for men. Moreover, women who have had multiple abortions often affect the quality of their sex life and fertility after marriage. Therefore, boys do not like girls who are too open in sex or have rich experience.

2. Girls' Present

Men know very well that in the early stages of a relationship, both parties are very good at disguising themselves. Therefore, men are always cautious about their marriage partners and sometimes use tricks to probe a girl's mind in order to get to know the other person more comprehensively and deeply. Therefore, girls don’t be angry. You are also using various methods to understand everything about boys. After all, there are principled differences between choosing a marriage partner and choosing a casual playmate.

3. Girl’s family

Although boys don't pay much attention to a girl's family situation, once they have made up their minds, they will not look back. However, it takes a process to make a boy decide on you. Moreover, under the current reality of great survival pressure, the economic pressure of both parents will definitely be transmitted to the quality of life of the young couple. Therefore, if the boy does not have the ability to support the girl's parents, and the girl herself does not have this ability, they can fall in love, but there will be great life pressure after marriage .

4. Girl’s appearance

In order to satisfy their vanity, boys can choose to have a sexy beauty as their romantic partner, but they may not eventually decide on her as their marriage partner. After all, love is about being under the moonlight, while marriage means having to deal with the daily necessities of life. There is an essential difference between a wife and a lover. The more beautiful the wife, the more insecure a man will feel. Especially in the real world where people laugh at the poor but not at prostitutes and perverts are everywhere, it would be very cost-effective to marry a wife with average looks.

5. The girl’s character

Men usually can't see through women, they don't have that kind of special ability, therefore, men will mostly treat women they are just playing around with just for fun, however, if they want to find a woman they can spend the rest of their life with, men will often be very cautious, and men will only be sincere to a girl they can fall in love with. Therefore, a man can have several lovers, but he will only marry the woman who is most suitable for him. In a man's eyes, a wife should be a synonym for stability.

6. Girls’ Personality

Some girls do not pay attention to changing their character defects after they fall in love and get to know each other. You should know that most men usually don't like girls who are too introverted, which will bring a great sense of depression to men's living environment. Similarly, many men don't like girls who chatter incessantly, which will cause psychological pressure on men that deteriorates the environment. This is why most boys like reserved, steady and feminine girls .

7. Girls’ temper

What men fear most is the girl who is violent, willful and has the temperament of a spoiled princess. In the eyes of men, you may not be beautiful or rich, but you must be considerate and never have a bad heart. Moreover, your temper must be good enough and you cannot have a hot temper. Even if a man does something wrong, you cannot chase him and beat him. What men like is a virtuous woman who can tolerate her husband's carelessness, smelly socks thrown around, and wanting to go to bed without washing his feet .

8. Girls’ abilities

For most men, making money to support the family is a man's job. If a woman makes more money than a man or has a higher career and social status than a man, most men will feel very uncomfortable, and may even develop an inferiority complex and choose to give up. This is not because the boy doesn't like you, but because the unspoken rules tell him that he is not worthy of you, or he is worried about his status in the family after marriage. It is very shameful for a man to only be a parent's assistant.

9. Girls’ kindness

A girl's appearance will age with the years, but the kindness in the heart of a kind-hearted girl will not change. A mature man usually understands this truth. Therefore, if a man discovers your dark side or even your vicious heart, you usually cannot become his ideal choice. So, if you want to be the wife of a high-quality man, it is more important to shape your inner beauty than to maintain your outer beauty.

10. Girls’ little tricks

A woman can be a little "petty" and can also use a coquettish and flirtatious tone when talking to a boy in order to awaken a man's male hormones that protect the weak. However, if you want to be his wife, you should pay attention to cultivating the qualities that a wife must have. You can't always let a man feel that you only know how to act coquettishly and that you need him to help you with everything, as this will make him feel very annoyed. What a man usually needs in a wife is a woman who can go through the ups and downs with him, and who is strong, confident, and has a zest for life.