9 ways to make women take the initiative to pay

Introduction: How can men improve their success rate in blind dates? With the development of my country's national conditions, many people are in the industry of leftover men and women for various reasons. Therefore, blind dates are currently popular, and friends and relatives around them are always urging them to go on blind dates and get married. However, if you want to leave a good impression on someone you have never met, you still have to do enough homework, especially for male friends. So, how can men increase their success rate in blind dates and make women take the initiative or even "pay for them"? Let's take a look.

1. Position yourself

It doesn't matter if a man is poor, what's scary is that he is poor but has integrity. He should have a clear understanding of himself. The other party is not worthy of him or looks down on him. This can be determined based on his income, family, age and appearance.

2. Avoid selling yourself too much to the other party

Blind dates are not about making friends, and not everything can be said. Your past life and emotional experiences require in-depth interaction between two people to slowly understand. If you try to sell yourself too much when you first meet someone, the other person will think you are too dependent on the relationship. If your marriage life is not satisfactory in the future, he will complain to people around him, and he will become the target of public criticism. This may make the other person feel resistant and unwilling to have in-depth interactions with you. So when you meet someone for the first time, be sure to strike a balance and just give a general idea. The more mysterious you are, the more interested others will be in you.

3. Please do not be late or leave early

Whether it is an interview, a party, or a broken appointment, it will make others have a bad impression of you. If you are late due to force majeure, you must inform the other party in advance.

4. Waiting for the rabbit

Once you miss the best time, when blind dates turn from a habit into torment again, all you can do is rely on the good deeds you did in your previous life. Since regret is of no use, just focus on work or being filial to your parents, and wait for the "super-sized pie" to fall from the sky. Amen, I send you my blessings, that’s all I can say.

5. Humorous men are more likable

Never say anything on a blind date that sounds boastful or flattering. For example, if you emphasize "I have a graduate degree" or "I have a house and a car" right at the beginning, women will think you are too superficial. Secondly, "I think you are the most beautiful person I know" and other similar opening lines are relatively unsuccessful. When chatting with women, men can prepare a few healthy jokes in advance so that both parties can enhance their understanding in a relaxed and humorous atmosphere, express their own personality and hobbies sincerely, and politely ask about the other party's interests, which will help both parties communicate and understand each other.

6. First impressions are important

In psychology, there is a concept called the primacy effect, which means that once the first impression is established, subsequent information organization and understanding will be based on the first impression. The recency effect means that the most recently acquired information has a greater impact than the previously acquired information. Generally speaking, the recency effect is more likely to occur between familiar people, especially close people. The primacy effect is more likely to occur between unfamiliar people, and it is more obvious during blind dates. In future interactions, the recency effect plays a more important role.

7. Quickly find the intersection with the other party

If the person you meet has very different experiences from you and has an opposite way of thinking, and you can't find a common topic, you should repeat the other person's views appropriately to show that you are on the same side as him. In this way, the other party will feel self-satisfied and will like you even more!

8. Pay attention to your eating manners

Many boys don't notice this. When eating, it is best to keep your mouth closed and avoid exposing the food you are chewing. When boys order food, they should try to avoid soupy dishes and foods with too much garlic and onions.

9. Please smile again with the sunshine

A real smile is not as simple as turning up the corners of your mouth, but rather the relaxation and tension of your muscles. Studies have found that a toothy smile is nearly 30% more contagious than a pursed-lip smile. Don't worry about your crooked teeth. 70% of Asian men say they like girls who smile often and have small canine teeth! And women like to see the sunny side of men even more.