7 Types of Men Who Allow Their Wives to Have an Affair

Introduction: The "green hat" has a long history and there are many versions of it. The most widely circulated one is that Zhu Yuanzhang once ordered that men from prostitutes' families must wear green scarves on their heads and red slings around their waists. As a result, when people see a woman wearing a "green hat", they know that the man in the family is unfaithful to his wife. Wearing a "green hat" has also become a common name for a man's wife who is a prostitute or has an affair. Chinese people have always despised cuckolds, but there are men in real life who are "passionate" about wearing cuckolds. Don’t believe it? Please read on.

1. Homosexuality

There are approximately 40-50 million homosexuals in China. As homosexuality is not understood and respected by society, some homosexual men have no choice but to choose heterosexual women as their wives in order to conceal their homosexuality, causing many women to fall into the miserable life of being wives of homosexuals. Homosexual men are not interested in women. A few of them will have a small amount of sex with their wives in the early stages of marriage for the purpose of fertility, but the sex life will gradually decrease and soon disappear. Some even have no sex life with their wives at all, and their wives remain virgins after many years of marriage.

In families with homosexual and heterosexual couples, both parties are victims. This is the result of cultural recognition of the majority group's exclusion of the minority group and persecution of sexual orientation. After a wife knows that her husband is gay, most wives of gay men (the wives of gay men are referred to as lesbian wives) will remain silent for various reasons so that the marriage can continue. When faced with their wives' sexual deprivation, some homosexual husbands will acquiesce in their wives finding lovers, or even take the initiative to help their wives find lovers. Their purpose in doing so is to reduce the guilt of deceiving their wives and unwillingness to satisfy their wives during their relationship, to alleviate their wives' sexual anxiety, and to achieve the goal of continuing to maintain the marriage.

2. Considerate man

This type of man is not with his wife for various reasons, or when he is around he cannot satisfy his wife due to sexual dysfunction. When facing his wife's sexual needs, men, out of pity for their wives and fear that their wives will be taken advantage of by bad men in desperation, will hint to or even help their wives find reliable men to be their lovers and fulfill their obligations on their behalf. I have a client whose husband works in another city and he often asks a friend of his to come to their home to help his wife. Later, this friend wanted to have sex with her, but she refused. Her friend had no choice but to tell her that it was her husband's idea. She was so angry that she wanted to divorce her husband. She thought her husband was testing her and did not trust her.

3. Men who cheated first

This type of man loves his wife, but for some reason he occasionally cheats on her and feels guilty and worried. Because they are worried that their wives will divorce them after they find out, and in order to alleviate their anxiety of giving their wives a handle, they will set up a plan to make their wives cheat on them. Their purpose of doing this is, firstly, to have something on their wife that they can use as evidence to catch her in case her affair is exposed, and secondly, to achieve psychological balance by evening each other out (which is actually very difficult to do). Some men want to cheat but are worried that they won't be able to find a reason to ask their wives to forgive them once they find out. So they will set up a plan to have their wives cheat first so that they can find a reason to cheat, and then they can cheat for pleasure with a clear conscience.

4. Men who pursue novelty in their sex life

In today's pursuit of diversity, sex is no exception. Sexual entertainment methods that deviate from traditional sexual culture, such as wife swapping, compensated dating, group sex, and SM, are accepted by more and more people. I have a client who has always longed to see his wife being raped by other men. His wife disagrees, so in order to seduce his wife, he actually invited a group of men and women with similar fetishes to his home to perform live, forcing his wife to divorce him.

5. Men who treat their wives as tools to make money

This type of man is lazy and unable to make money. In order to make money, he will actively let his wife become a sex worker or seduce men, and he will reap the benefits. If their wives disagree, they will patiently teach them, and may even resort to using fists and kicks to force their wives to agree.

6. Men who let their wives pay off their bosses with sex to pave the way for their careers

This type of men attach great importance to power, and if their career is blocked, they will do anything for it. If they meet a man in power who "loves red dresses more than weapons", this kind of man will not hesitate to let his wife use her body to pay off his boss, so as to achieve the goal of paving the way for himself. This situation often occurs in the civil service. The media often discloses that the secretary gives two hats (official hat and green hat) to new leaders at the same time. This is no secret.

7. Men who let their wives give birth to children

This type of men believe that "the worst of the three unfilial acts is to have no descendants", but they suffer from their own infertility. In order to continue the family line, they will reluctantly let their wives actively seduce men they think have good genes. Once they succeed, they will quickly force the wife to break up with the man, and then spend the rest of their lives struggling over whether the result is a "son" or a "bastard".