There's no going back if you cheat at this time

There are 4 situations in which men will definitely cheat. Moreover, deep in their consciousness, men will have more or less unrealistic fantasies about sex. Under normal circumstances, men will not take risks easily, but if external and internal conditions permit, the probability of this happening will greatly increase.

1. Marriage enters a plateau period

Note: From an institutional perspective, marriage is a bit like an "iron rice bowl", especially after the initial stage from love to marriage, when the other party's feelings become warm to a certain level, they will inevitably enter a relatively dull period without too many ups and downs. Men's instinct to get tired of the old and love the new will begin to stir, even though the other party may not necessarily have the intention of separation or divorce.

Comment: In fact, extramarital affairs happen more often between two people who have just met, or between former lovers who rekindle old flames. This is more likely to happen only when at least one of the couples is in trouble in their marriage.

There is an interesting phenomenon. Some people are as bohemian as Tolstoy in their early years, but at a certain time, especially in their later years, they will live as purely as Puritans. Some people have a simple experience before marriage, but as the climax of their marriage passes, their resistance to the outside world becomes very poor. In fact, marriage is about living together, and the greatest force that maintains a marriage is a sense of responsibility and mutual respect and need in life. Marriage does require affection, but it is two different states from being in love, just like the difference between being a music fan and being a DJ.

2. When you feel frustrated

Note: When a man is frustrated, what he needs most is affirmation from a woman. He relies on a woman's warmth to relax himself and rebuild his confidence. If this man lacks a partner with whom he can get along perfectly, then at this time he would very much hope that another woman would "take advantage of the situation" and even find a woman he usually disdains to get close to. If there is a woman who has always been fond of him and takes the initiative to comfort him, then something can easily happen.

Comment: When a man is vulnerable, he is like a child, and women are born to be good mothers. A man's emotional sublimation is sometimes achieved when he is most vulnerable.

3. After getting rich

Note: This kind of person is often not a playboy or a naturally lustful person, but at least money makes his male instincts swell instantly. Their early life is likely to be darker than that of ordinary people, and they are also often troubled by the setbacks in love. They use their money to constantly create romantic encounters, just out of a desire to make up for it, and the number of romantic encounters is often used as a measure of their "sense of accomplishment." At least words like love are probably just a joke to them.

Comment: What kind of social responsibilities should the rich bear? It seems that it is time to mobilize the whole nation to discuss this issue.

4. The fence was suddenly removed

Explanation: They already have a crush on each other, or one or both of them have developed feelings for each other, but they are just ordinary colleagues or friends. An accidental opportunity creates conditions for both parties: they suddenly enter the state of being careless, and in a daze, the two of them break the boundary...

Comment: When opportunities come, women always seem hesitant, but men often seize the opportunity and take the initiative. Opportunistic men can sometimes give women an unexpected surprise, but more often than not they don't want to take any responsibility for their momentary impulse.