The Flirting Techniques of a Bad Boy

Flirtatism: The art of flirting that only "bad boys" understand. It is common knowledge that women like money and power, but only real bad boys know the secret: money and power are just fireworks, and sexual chemistry is the spark that ignites the dry wood. The bad boy's job is to cultivate these tiny sparks and turn them into blazing flames within a certain period of time.

Not every attractive target will feel the spark, so you'll need to get a little creative. Perhaps your past conquests have given you a lot of security and confidence, but even an expert cannot guarantee that every chemical reaction will proceed normally. At this time, what we need to do immediately is to roll up our sleeves and create creative tension.

Definition of Sexual Chemistry

Flirtatism: The art of flirting that only "bad boys" understand. Let's first familiarize ourselves with the definition of sexual chemistry, which is "a natural mutual attraction formed by a combination of rapport and physical attraction between two people." Of course, this description is too obscure, so we can simplify it to be more understandable: you need to do some actions based on her personality to pull things towards physical attraction - even if she's not "feeling" yet.

You probably want results as quickly as possible, so let's look at what exactly needs to be done in one night.

Similar background

Similar backgrounds are the basis of sexual chemistry. If you have similar backgrounds, either emotionally or intellectually, that's a good start - you'll at least have things to talk about. So, focus on multiple levels of similar backgrounds. The more similar the backgrounds are, the easier it will be for you to establish a sense of connection with her and the easier it will be for her to remember you.

Find similar context, which means you need to listen and pay enough attention to what she says in the conversation. Stand with her on certain topics, but don't be a "nice" guy. Agree with her and use your difference to create a spark, constant agreement will bore her, having your own opinion will unlock sexual chemistry.

Show that you understand women

Flirtatism: The art of flirting that only "bad boys" understand. If you want to show her that you always think about women, understand women's feelings, and see through women's thoughts, then you are completely wasting your time. She knows you won't side with the woman. However, you can use your politeness to show that you are inclusive of women - you need to open your heart and do your best to communicate and listen to women. This will remind her that she is with a man, and her sultry interest will increase.

Show that you understand her

She'll keep talking and you'll keep listening - at least you should listen, because she'll reveal a lot of information while she's talking. Ask for her reaction, agree with her point of view (don't fake your own), and your acquiescence is a form of understanding. Understanding will bring her feelings, and understanding will make her burn. It will make her wonder who you are and why you can understand her while others can't.

Keep it secret

Flirtatism: The art of flirting that only "bad boys" understand. Knowing too much will make it difficult for sexual chemistry to react, and only yearning for something we don't have can arouse our desire. But this doesn't mean you need to be abstinent or stingy with your answers. All you need to do is talk less and listen more, and don't talk too much about people or things that have nothing to do with you.

By the end of the date, you should make her feel that she has a limited understanding of you, so that there will be chemistry. Also, be sure to act coy during the hookup so that she thinks you're a lonely, impatient person who can't make herself happy. This undoubtedly poured cold water on her. So, stay away from things like glancing at people or staring at them, which can be really scary. Pay attention to these details and keep the subject away from sex. If the girl likes the guy, they will actively drop clues and move closer to you.

Stay Positive

Few things can dampen sexual chemistry, desire, and attraction except negativity. In other words, the only things that can dry up excitement and kill interest are negative emotions such as anger and complaining. Maybe your politeness and mystery make her curious, but if she has to tolerate your bad attitude at the same time, then she will definitely withdraw.

Flirtatism: The art of flirting that only "bad boys" understand. Juliette Binoche said, "Attraction is beyond our control." Yes, we can't control attraction, but we can work on sexual chemistry. So, forget whether bad boys are right or wrong, start collecting test tubes and alcohol lamps, and mix your own sexual chemistry.