Beware of 8 common masturbation mistakes women make

Female masturbation is described as a mysterious "sexual solo dance". When women first learn the secret of masturbation, or when they just begin this happy attempt, they will hear all kinds of myths about female masturbation. Because they always find it difficult to find the correct answer for a while, this often makes them deeply confused and even worried. In fact, these misunderstandings about female masturbation are very ridiculous.

1. Female masturbation is a sexual deviancy

In the past, masturbation, especially female masturbation, has always been regarded as a sexual deviance, and many doctors even list the terrible consequences of masturbation. However, with the development of society and the progress of medical science, people finally have a correct understanding of female masturbation: female masturbation does not harm physical health. It is not only a healthy and normal sexual behavior, but also can relieve sexual tension. It is the best substitute and supplement for normal sex life. Female masturbation is also a very common physiological phenomenon.

2. Women masturbating before marriage will lead to sexual indifference after marriage

This statement has no scientific basis at all. Today, sexologists unanimously believe that female masturbation is a process for them to understand and become familiar with their own bodies. This will enable them to better understand which parts of their bodies are most sensitive, what kind of stimulation they need, and what reactions will occur afterwards, which is beneficial to their sexual physiological and psychological development. In this regard, sexologists were also surprised to find that women who masturbated before marriage were less likely to suffer from orgasm disorders after marriage, while women who did not masturbate before marriage were three times more likely to suffer from sexual frigidity than those who masturbated before marriage.

3. Masturbation can damage the hymen

If the hymen is damaged, especially if it is torn, it will generally cause pain and bleeding. Although masturbation may sometimes cause certain pulling damage to the hymen, the phenomenon of rupture of the hymen due to masturbation is rare. What's more, there are many ways for women to masturbate, and it doesn't require them to imitate sexual intercourse like men do and put their fingers into the vagina. So as someone abroad joked, the girl who masturbates is still the same girl.

4. Masturbation accelerates the development of adolescent girls and enlarges their breasts and buttocks

During the process of sexual development of adolescent girls, their breasts grow and develop, subcutaneous fat increases and makes the mons pubis bulge, the buttocks become larger, and pubic hair grows and the labia develop and thicken, all of which are secondary sexual characteristics of women. The appearance of these female secondary sexual characteristics is mainly the result of the growth and action of sex hormones in the body, especially estrogen. For a specific individual, genetic factors also play an important role. However, acquired behaviors, including female masturbation, have minimal impact on the appearance and specific development of these secondary sexual characteristics. Therefore, masturbation will not have much impact on the development of the body, but will cause the breasts and buttocks to grow and enlarge prematurely.

5. Women who masturbate after marriage will become indifferent to their husbands

In fact, female masturbation itself is a sexual behavior different from other methods such as sexual intercourse. It's like, masturbation is a salad, and sex with your lover is a steak. No matter who eats the salad, it will not affect his appetite for steak. The fact is, masturbation can have a positive impact on a couple's relationship.

6. Only women with low cultural level and lack of positive attitude towards life are more keen on masturbation

Wrong. A survey on the incidence of female masturbation showed that highly educated women and white-collar women have a more common masturbation behavior than women with lower cultural levels. A related foreign survey showed that the masturbation rate of the former is over 60%, while that of the latter is only 34%. The reason may be that the former have the opportunity to access more sexual information and adopt a more open-minded attitude towards sex.

7. Men like to watch women masturbate

In fact, this is not entirely true. Perhaps, at first, when a man finds out that his partner is masturbating, he will feel surprised, and the sight of his wife masturbating will also make him excited, but if he encounters this situation again in the future, most of them will quietly walk away.

8. Both masturbation and homosexuality involve touching and caressing sexual organs or other sensitive parts of the body with hands, so masturbation can develop into homosexuality. Masturbation and homosexuality are only one step away.

wrong. In fact, homosexuality has its own special causes, part of which is caused by genetic factors, and part of which is the influence of the environment in childhood, especially close contact with homosexuals. Therefore, as long as you don't get involved with the same sex casually and don't have overly intimate physical contact with them, please rest assured that you will never lose the direction of love and throw the red ball to the female friends of the same sex as you.