Is sexual indifference a disease?

Many couples are actually not harmonious in their sex life. Especially some friends who have been married for many years may experience sexual frigidity. Many people actually don't pay too much attention to the sexual needs of both spouses, so it is easy to ignore the other party's sexual indifference. Many people ask, is sexual indifference a disease? Actually, yes. Sexual indifference is a common disease, also known as sexual dysfunction.

Female sexual frigidity is the only sexual dysfunction disease that patients still talk about. The reason is simple. In order to appear "serious", men can say that they never go out to have affairs, but they will never say that they have no interest in sex, otherwise they may be suspected of being impotent by their peers.

Women are different. They often confess in front of their peers that they have no interest in sex and will not take the initiative to make sexual demands. Instead of laughing at them for being "impotent", people will praise them for being virtuous and faithful to their husbands, because this is what Chinese moral education has required of them since ancient times.

On the contrary, if they say that they have strong sexual desire and often have sexual demands, they are likely to be regarded as prostitutes. Therefore, some scholars point out that China's traditional moral education, while making people morally noble and families "stable", also brings misfortune to Chinese women's sexual happiness.

According to a survey, a wife's sexual indifference or dissatisfaction with her sex life is related to her husband's constant silence. Women's skin is more sensitive to touch. Skin that is not caressed for a long time will develop a pathological state, which some people call skin "hunger". This is not only not conducive to sexual life, but also endangers women's physical and mental health.

The sensitive areas of female skin touch are not limited to the breasts and vagina. It can be said that the skin all over the body has the function of arousing sexiness. Often hugging and caressing your wife will add harmony to family life. In real life, some husbands do not pay attention to their wives' sexual physiological characteristics and regard simple intercourse as the entire content of their sex life. Over time, how can this not cause their wives to become sexually apathetic or have a loss of libido?

Five reasons for women's sexual indifference

Sexual indifference is not innate. There are many unfathomable factors involved, some of which are closely related to the husband.

1. Psychological trauma: In some cases, it is because the woman has been violently assaulted by a man. However, we should pay more attention and care to such women. Even if she is different from others, we should not complain about her. After all, she has suffered enough harm, and we cannot ask anything of her.

2. Wrong sexual concepts: For some women, the problem of sexual apathy after growing up is most likely because they have accepted wrong sexual concepts since childhood. For example, living in a very traditional family, strict elders have always taught that sex is wrong, a good woman should not enjoy married life, having sex with men is a very shameful thing, etc. When a woman is exposed to such ideas since childhood and has normal sexual desires when she grows up, she will naturally try to restrain herself. Over time, she will naturally develop into sexual frigidity.

3. Insufficient sexual skills: "Women are made of water and are meant to be loved." I believe everyone knows this, but often they cannot do it well. As a man, you really need to improve, otherwise there will be no more women in this society interested in you. In many cases, men have to take women's bodies and moods into consideration. If they only care about satisfying their own desires and don't care about their lover's feelings, they may lose more happiness in the near future. All people are equal. Never ruin your future sexual happiness because of your momentary lust.

4. Pain or discomfort during sex: Some men are more patriarchal and think that their wives are their private property. When they are happy, they don’t care whether their wives are interested or not. After drinking, they go to bed and ask their wives for sex. They don’t care about their wives’ interests. They just take out their guns, go into the cave, fight quickly, and then go to sleep happily. Aren’t such men forcing their wives to dislike them? This is the consequence of your lack of understanding of romance. It would be strange if you don’t become sexually frigid after a long time.

5. Changes in relationship: Some women become sexually apathetic due to some external factors. When a woman finds out that her husband has slept with another woman, how much interest will she have in continuing to have the same passionate love affair with her husband as before? Isn't this the man's own fault? There are many times when men fail to enjoy a happy cave tour because they fail to take care of their guns.