Doing this can actually improve the mood between husband and wife!

Almost without exception, couples with problems will complain about their partner's shortcomings and mistakes, and firmly believe that the other person is the culprit of the problem. Thinking about marriage problems with this kind of logic will lead to an attitude that the responsibility lies with the other party and that everything I do is in vain. This will eventually lead to a loss of patience in managing the marriage and even giving up. So, how can couples get along for a long time?

Husbands and wives should give more praise

A husband and wife are a whole. Marriage problems cannot be solved by one person alone. Both parties must take responsibility. If both parties consciously do something to improve the relationship, it will be of great benefit to the maintenance of the marriage and the happiness of the couple.

In daily life, or after a conflict, couples should avoid complaining about each other, and learn to reflect on themselves and solve problems. Accusing, mocking and ridiculing others will only intensify the conflict. Sometimes, if you scold too much, it will even be difficult to mend the relationship.

Therefore, don't blame others easily, and reflect on yourself more. When we start to reflect on "what can I do" instead of just asking the other person what to do, there is an opportunity to improve the relationship. Marriage means mutual dependence and mutual giving, and if you give too much, you will always feel tired. Don’t think that just remember your partner’s good points in your heart and no one will know unless you say it out loud.