7 sensitive issues that men are most afraid of women talking about

Sometimes women always complain about men's domineering, bad temper and chauvinism, but have you ever noticed that you may accidentally touch upon men's pain points? If women pay attention to the following seven topics that men avoid, I believe that your relationship will be harmonious and you will get along better.

First, don’t talk about what “roles” men play in the family

Many women are delighted because their husbands are very diligent and excellent at home and help them with housework. In order to express their sense of superiority, they often mention in front of others how good their husbands are at home and how they can help their children.

Cleaning the house, taking care of the children, cooking, etc. by yourself, although the wife is a compliment, but for a man, he still has obvious gender characteristics in his subconscious, and still thinks that doing housework is detrimental to his wife.

The dignity of a real man is lost, and his sense of identity is lost. Over time, this will create resistance and annoyance in his heart. Not only will you become unwilling to do housework, it may also affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Second, never criticize his mother in person, as this will hurt his feelings.

It is said that the mother-in-law is the natural enemy of the daughter-in-law. In real life, it is indeed rare for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along well. Perhaps it is because women are inherently narrow-minded, sensitive and jealous. When two women face a man, they will always inevitably compete for him. The wife worries that her husband will be too close to his mother, and the mother is often afraid that her son will be taken away by another woman and thus distance herself from herself.

This kind of potential inexplicable jealousy or envy, once it comes between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law,

There are bound to be conflicts between women. Therefore, there will be wives who always say "What about your mother..." or "I am much better than your mother". Once a wife speaks like this, it is easy for her husband to be turned away.

Women must remember that their husbands and their mothers are always blood relatives, which is a family relationship that can never be severed. Or maybe their feelings are deeper than yours. You can show your tenderness and kindness as a wife, but you should never

To act more virtuous than his mother.

Third, if he looks at a beautiful woman for a second, don't make fun of him.

Any normal man will like beautiful women, even if he does not admit it. As a wife, she often feels jealous and envious when her husband admires other women.

In fact, there is no need to do this. A smart woman must know how to motivate her husband or boyfriend. Even if she can't wait to know her husband's thoughts, she should take the initiative to point to a beautiful woman on the street and ask her boyfriend: Is she beautiful?

No? Don’t ever ask, is she prettier than me? Remember! Because the effect of correction will be better than feeling good about yourself.

Fourth, don’t compliment another man by comparing his shortcomings.

If you do this, your husband will definitely feel looked down upon and ridiculed. Generally speaking, men usually lack a sense of security around the same sex. If you compare his advantages with those of other men, it may often make him feel uneasy. Therefore,

Try to avoid comparing your husband with other men. Even if you must compare him, it is best to talk about your husband's strengths and compare them with other men's weaknesses. You should make your husband feel that he is better than other men, not worse. No

If you keep focusing on your husband's shortcomings, you will make him lose face, confidence, and affection for you.

Fifth, don’t make fun of his “romantic views”

Every man has his own romantic feelings and preferences. As a wife, you should never make fun of his "romantic views". Even if you think his romantic views are outdated or childish and funny, you should respect and encourage your husband's romance. Otherwise, it will hurt his self-esteem. From then on, your husband will not only resist romance, but may also develop an inferiority complex. By then, I'm afraid there will be no romance between you anymore.

Sixth, don’t keep persuading him to get a promotion, a raise, or to “change jobs”

If a woman urges her husband to get promoted or change jobs all day long, women who have this idea tend to have a strong vanity. This is the kind of woman who wants men to constantly save face for them. Such a woman will definitely make a man exhausted, stressed, and mentally drained.

Not only that, such women often have a strong sense of dependence, as the saying goes, "Only vines entwine trees, but no trees entwine vines." In order to satisfy their vanity and dependence, they do not hesitate to put all kinds of pressure on their husbands. Of course, encouragement

There is nothing wrong with a husband working hard and being proactive, but if he creates pressure without considering the actual situation, it may backfire. In short, such women look smart, but are actually very stupid.

Seventh, don’t bring up his eating habits or bad habits.

As a husband, you often confide some of your thoughts to your wife. There are no secrets between husband and wife, and they are very transparent with each other. However, when your husband confides in you, he does not mean that he wants you to spread his thoughts everywhere and advertise them to your neighbors and friends. Sometimes men hate it most that their wives often reveal their "secrets" in front of their friends, especially their bad habits and certain defects. This is a big taboo.

In fact, this is a person's normal psychology. No one wants others to know too much about their shortcomings. This is also human nature. However, you might as well praise his strengths in front of others, such as his excellent work, good taste in clothes, superb cooking skills, etc. In this way, your husband will definitely be very happy. Smart women may wish to give it a try.

It is inevitable that couples will have some disputes. The woman may argue for a long time about a man’s hobby, or make too strict demands on the man just because she hopes he can become better. However, this often arouses the man’s emotions and leads to conflicts. Therefore, it is better for both parties to understand each other.