Which girlfriend is best for a good man to train?

Behind every successful man there is a woman who silently supports him. A good man has the shadow of a smart woman. Everyone wants to meet a good man and train a man of your own. Are you tempted?

Most gentle and considerate men are trained by women. When you are in your first love, you often don’t know how to cherish each other; after experiencing some emotions, a man will cherish you more, because his ex-girlfriend taught him a lot. So, when we have a good man, we should know that what we enjoy is the result of the previous girl. So, which girlfriend is the happiest for a man?

First love?

First love is beautiful and pure, but pure love cannot replace everything. He knew nothing. When he was pursuing you, he wrote several love letters and called you downstairs of your dormitory. He thought about it for two days when he held your hand for the first time.

The first time I said I loved you, my face turned red; the first time I kissed you, I was afraid of offending you, so I asked you if you agreed first. This is first love. He has no knowledge of relationships, and even less understanding of women. He doesn’t know what you want. You ask him

When asked who he loved the most, he would not lie and say it was his mother. You asked him whether he would marry you in the future, he was stunned for a moment and said he had never thought about this question.

The first relationship is undoubtedly immature. This is because he doesn't have too many thoughts about relationships and doesn't have too many demands. Basically, no matter what you are like, he can accept it and is willing to pamper you, coax you, and love you unconditionally. But most first loves also end in failure because they do not take into account the feasibility of the actual situation.

In terms of the depth of the mark, the first relationship left the deepest mark and had the greatest impact. Many years later, when he has children of his own, he can still recall the sunny afternoons when you and I played carefree under the big tree.

Second girlfriend?

He sends you flowers and treats your friends to dinner. He said “I love you” and then picked you up and spun you around. You promised him that

In a moment, he kissed you. This is how men behave in their second relationship. He said girlfriends should wash their boyfriends' clothes and bring them water to wipe their sweat when they are playing ball. You asked him who he loved most, and he thought about it.

Say, it's you. You asked, will we have a future? He said, would you like to go to my hometown? Occasionally, he would think of his first love, and he said, I was too young at that time and didn’t understand anything.

A man who has experienced a relationship already has his own understanding of women's preferences. He already has a vague concept of love, women, and marriage. Consciously or unintentionally, he is pursuing and adjusting his own views on love. But a man in his second relationship, although he knows what he wants, he doesn't want to tie himself down so quickly.

Third girlfriend?

He said, although I have nothing, I have a heart that loves you. Believe me, we will be very happy. So you

We rented a house in a strange city and lived together in a small house with a simple bathroom and kitchen. You wake up earlier than him every morning, occasionally make breakfast for him, and go to work separately. In the evening, you buy food on your way back.

I cook for him and he occasionally washes the dishes and mops the floor. We lived frugally together to pay off the credit card debt from school, and got married when we had saved enough money. You went back to his hometown with him, and he said that his father didn’t think you were as pretty as his ex-girlfriend.

Men at this stage have shed their youthfulness and are moving from being men to becoming men. When it comes to women, in addition to paying attention to appearance and figure, he will also pay attention to whether you can cook, take care of yourself, and be a good mother. He begins to consider the feasibility of marrying you and whether the two of you are suitable to live together.

After two relationships, a man has plans to start a family, and he will take the initiative to take you home to meet his parents. He will save money for you and promise to give you happiness. The man in his third relationship may not be financially well off, but he will work hard for your small family. Therefore, a man who has been through two relationships is basically a good marriage partner.

Fourth girlfriend?

He said, I think we'll get along. That night he sent you home and stayed overnight. He is very caring and always understands what women need. He gave you a surprise before you even asked. He bought a house and wrote

Your name. When his mother saw you, she said, "Girl, you are not young anymore, get married!" You felt very happy and accepted his diamond ring. One day, you looked through his computer and saw a letter he wrote to his ex-girlfriend, saying that you

Our stories, and then say: These are what I want to do for you the most, but I didn’t understand and didn’t have the conditions before.

After three relationships, a man has a certain financial ability and can provide you with what you need in life. However, men at this stage may no longer focus on feelings after experiencing several relationships, and just choose a marriage partner, so you should be wary of whether a man is getting married just for the sake of getting married.

If you can meet this man at this stage, then you are undoubtedly lucky. Both economically and psychologically, he is a mature man. You can enjoy the results of all the hardships he has experienced before. Those results have been brewed into mellow wine. All you have to do is to taste it slowly and drink this glass of wine.

If you can meet this man at this stage, it will undoubtedly be a great challenge for yourself. It is precisely because he has everything he needs, and because he has a clear idea of ​​what he wants from women, marriage, and the future.

If you show even the slightest sign of unsuitability, he will deduct one point from you. If you get another point, and the score is below 60, you will be eliminated. You have to be his friend and share everything with him; you also have to be his subordinate and admire and respect him;

He also has to be a lover, with charming qualities that make him unable to leave.

Every stage of a man has his own unique flavor, just like wine from different years. Which vintage do you like? Which vintage can you drink?